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unprotected sex, HIV advice needed

Hello sir,

I am a male from India 21 years old. I had unprotected sex 3 times during last four years.Freaking about HIV or AIDS. I don't know anything about the tests on HIV or AIDS. What i did was was

All the three times I had an oral sex with men. All the times they licked my penis vigorously. I met all them only in bus stand. I dint know who are they.I didn't lick their penis at ever.

I am getting afraid of HIV , Please help me. I didn't notice any symptoms of HIV so far

Thank you.
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No, now move along.
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Hello i would like to know , Is there any HIV patient because of oral sex
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186166 tn?1385259382
you are worrying needlessly.  the fact is...YOU HAD NO RISK
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Call the place and ask them, we can't know how long a certain place takes to do a test.
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One more question doctor.
                  
                              Now i got placed in MNC company and the company sent me to the doctor for all test and also for fitness certificate. They took my blood and urine 5 days before. No reports were still announced. It makes me more afraid. So i would like to know how much the time the results take for HIV test.

Thanks
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No, your CBC and WBC tests do not check or show HIV. There is nothing to help you with. You do not have an HIV concern.
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Thanks sir.

One more question.
               I would like to know whether the normal blood test shows the traces of HIV or not.Because 1 year before i was affected by Jaundice and they tested my urine and blood. I had my 2 oral sex before jaundice affection.

Even though they tested my blood and urine, they find out my jaundice only and they didn't talk about HIV infection. On that time I was really afraid. Now i cant sleep, eat and i cant do anything. Do i undergo for HIV test or else can i lead my life happily. Please please help me sir
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No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States

Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction? An update
J Campo1, MA Perea1, J del Romero2, J Cano1, V Hernando2, A Bascones1
Oral Diseases (2006) 12, 219–228

AIDS: Volume 16(17) 22 November 2002 pp 2350-2352
Risk of HIV infection attributable to oral sex among men who have sex with men and in the population of men who have sex with men

Page-Shafer, Kimberlya,b; Shiboski, Caroline Hb; Osmond, Dennis Hc; Dilley, Jamesd; McFarland, Willie; Shiboski, Steve Cc; Klausner, Jeffrey De; Balls, Joycea; Greenspan, Deborahb; Greenspan
Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.

Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

Jenicek M. "Clinical Case Reporting" in Evidence-Based Medicine. Oxford: Butterworth–Heinemann; 1999:117
Saltzman SP, Stoddard AM, McCusker J, Moon MW, Mayer KH. Reliability of self-reported sexual behavior risk factors for HIV infection in homosexual men. Public Health Rep. 1987 102(6):692–697.Nov–Dec;

Catania JA, Gibson DR, Chitwood DD, Coates TJ. Methodological problems in AIDS behavioral research: influences on measurement error and participation bias in studies of sexual behavior. Psychol Bull. 1990 Nov;108(3):339–362.

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who believe that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." Dr. Hook
"The observation on thousands and thousands of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK
"I would not say your risk ,if he had HIV is "slim to none"- that's too high.  I would say they are effectively zero.  How much of his ejaculate or other genital  secretions you may have swallowed makes no difference.  EWH "
"As far as HIV is concerned, there is no known risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex on an infected partner, even if that person's genital secretions get into your eyes or if you swallow." Dr.Hook
HIV is not spread by oral sex, giving or receiving, even if sores, gum disease or blood is present
DR HOOK
The fact is that there are no cases in which HIV has been proven to be transmitted by oral sex, including fellatio..  EWH
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Sir please one question.

In some articles i read HIV can also transmitted through oral sex if they have any cuts or open wounds. So what  i am freaking is, if those three persons have any cuts or wounds on their mouth, Could i get infected by HIV ?.

Thanks
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Not an HIV concern. HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.
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