All right. Thank you very much Teak!
Can I stay calm so?
No, it's outside the host. You didn't have unprotected penetrative sex.
But vaginal fluids on vulva and critoris for exemple isn't considered "host"?
thank you.
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.
Even if vaginal fluids enter in my uretra while I was rubbing her vagina?
No it is not a risk of contracting HIV.
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child