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worried i have been exposed

about 5 nights ago i got really drunk and walking home from a friends party when i was aproached by a prostitute. I had sexual intercourse with her with a condom for about a minute, then she gave me oral without a condom.  im really worried becuase after i noticed she had small bruise like marks over her body and on her hands and one on her face. i later discovered  that my penis had been marked buy her teeth and was redish in the morning with small cuts.  I have read alot about oral being low risk but i have now discovered a red like bruise on my forearm. i never normally bruise there.   i know i have been really stupid and im now stuck with extreme aniexty over it.   i dont know if anbody can help me by replying cos i have googled very single posiablity concerning this.  i guess i just want somone to talk to. plss reply thk u :)
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480448 tn?1426948538
Whatever it is, it has nothing to do with HIV.  If you remain concerned, see your doctor.
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well im thinking its not a bruise now becuase its not changing colour, i know how my body works and this doesnt look like how i normally bruise.  maybe its a rash ?
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480448 tn?1426948538
1.  You had no risk.  You cannot get HIV without having a risk.
2.  A bruise is a bruise.  Without this anxiety you're having, you wouldn't even have noticed it.
3.  Brusing is not an ARS symptom.

Move on, you have nothing to worry about.
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No ARS and No risk.It's just a plain old bruise,don't over think the situation.You're safe.
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just to update the bruise/ rash on my forearm has not gone away or faded. i know my body and i know it is usual for me to bruise there.  i keep praying it will turn yellow and disappear then i can just dissmiss it as a simple bruise.  but its not going away?  ars possibly ?
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Well please be assured that if this is the only incident that of concern to you then you will test negative at 3 months.

You don't need to test but I guess you will for your own peace of mind.
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cheers mate, i know theres alot of information out there, google is my worst enemy at the moment lol  i guess i just wanted to speak to someone about my concerns. and i feel my mind will never be free until i have a test in 3 months, but hey thats just me lol.   thks again
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Just to back uo what the others have said this is definitley not a risk, whatever spin gets put on it.  You will not get infected by getting blown or engaging in condom protected sex.

Bruises are not signs of a recent HIV infection.  Stop micro examining your body there are probably other things you never noticed before because you never paid enough attention.

You did the right thing and used a condom the rest is irrelevant.
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You can have his confidence and the confidence of the expert doctors forum that agree that oral sex is not a risk for Hiv infection  under any circumstance.You're safe.
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thanks for yr reply it is appreciated :)  .. wish i had yr confidence though lol
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No. Oral sex is a no risk activity as far as HIV is concerned.
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what if she had some sort of bleeding gums or cut in the mouth ? it was dark i never noticed anything but she could have? would that increase my chances ?
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You had no risk, no need to test.
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sorry if i have posted this in the wrong forum
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