Please, can I have more comments on my problem?
About 6 weeks ago I visited an indonesian massage parlor for a normal massage. The woman gave me a massage and rubbed me with a oil which she took from an open small cup. I am sure she uses that oil from the same cup also with other customers. The room where she gave me the massage was clean. but I am absolutely not sure if she had changed the sheet or whatever. She massaged me for about 30 minutes with using much oil. I was naked on the table. The she asked me to stimulate my penis and I agreed (which I should not have done - but thats always afterwards). She used much oil from the cup on my penis and gave me a handjob till I ejaculated. She cleaned my penis with a paper towel. I am concerned and worried. Can there be active HIV in the oil from other customers? When she rubbed the top of my penis with it, can HIV be transmitted from the oil into me? When the sheets were not clean, can there be transmitted any std from it to me? After 2 weeks I got some fever (could also be slight food poisoning). Now, some weeks later, I have stifness in my neck, a soar troath and I am really sweathing already during two nights. Can I be infected with HIV? I did not have any contact with her intimate fluids or whatever, no penetration. Nothing like that. Please could you reply on my question? Thank you in advance.