Apuller,
Sorry to read of your ordeal.
First, there are experts in IHSS -- now more commonly referred to as HOCM (Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy). We have two fantastic doctors here at CCF who deal with HOCM: Drs Craig Asher and Harry Lever. Both can be contacted thru our website, www.ccf.org. Other centers also have experts, most notably at the Mayo clinic. I strongly advise that you seek at least a one-time opinion from a HOCM expert.
Your insurance company is interested in their "bottom-line", as are all insurance companies. They know that in patients with the generic diagnosis of "CHF", having frequent nurse/doctor/phone contact decreases hospitalization frequency and thus decreases their costs. One of your doctors must have coded at least one of your visits as being for "CHF", and that is now what is prompting the phone calls.
Now, some patients with HOCM experience severe symptoms of fatigue, shortness of breath, chest pains, and passing out. Others have no symptoms. In fact, HOCM is the number one cause of sudden cardiac death in adolescent athletes, the majority of whom have no symptoms before dropping dead (that is why you had an ICD placed). So it would not at all be uncommon if you never experienced any symptoms or signs, such as weight gain that the insurance company mentioned.
Hope that helps. But don't just listen to me, seek an opinion from an expert.
Be your own good advocate! And good luck!
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