DrCain,
There really shouldn't be much of a weaning period. Toprol XL is an extended release version of lopressor. When the medicine is completely released over a 24 hour period, the last effect of the medicine last several hours into the next dosing. Overall, stopping the medicine or weaning the dose should be accomplished in several days. Im not sure why your rebound was so significant unless there is some other part of your history not mentioned.
Since you are having such symptoms, I wouldnt change your dose any further until you speak with your physician.
good luck