I think you should concern with your health care provider.
I don’t have an answer, but am curious myself. I am four weeks post surgery and am finding that my libido is definitely returning. I know that the sternum is not ready for full on sex, but even mutual masturbation would be welcome at this point.
I can't directly speak about post op heart surgery, but after two spinal surgeries, my doc told my wife that "stairs are OK, sex is OK, sex on the stairs in NOT OK!" Interpret that how you will! Believe me, it was the last thing on my mind at that particular point.
Stu
I'm sure there's more to the story, but.........I don't understand the urgency.
Sixteen days after my surgery, any sexual type activities were the LAST thing on my mind.
I'd say if you feel up to it, go for it. What's the worst thing that could happen?
thanks--vague--if you can go up 2 flights--you are ready--but these are less stressful activities--to ejaculate
Look in your hospital discharge paper work. It will tell you when you can resume these activities. If not clear, call your doctor, or his nurse.