I emailed a friend at Sinai in NYC. He uses an EP there named Avi Fischer. He recommends him. It might be worth asking him for a second opinion before having a device implant.
Good luck.
It is more difficult to recommend no therapy than to recommend therapy. Putting in an ICD is easy but it is difficult to say if it is the right thing to do. If you truly have a structurally normal heart and VT, you should not need an ICD. The difficult question is do you have a structurally normal heart.
Where to live -- you need to go to a major medical center to have this question answered. I can steer you toward an expert if I know where you live.
There are many different beta blockers that can be tried -- atenolol, carvedilol, nadolol. In some cases, calcium channel blockers help as well.
You should try to avoid stress if it triggers your VT, but we both know this is easier said than done. Some people notice their VT around the time of their menstrual cycle as well.
I hope this answers your question.