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best to you
Mattie
Although you were not infirm pre-transplant, I believe the whole process begins the minute you hear the word...TRANSPLANT.... I still the remember the sick feeling in the pit of my stomach when that word was spoken to us. I'm sure Karen and you do also. You and your family had 5 long years to deal with it, the doubts, the fears, the second guessing, the what if's. But WOW!!!! High on the list in late May, Tranplant on June 17, and out 5 days later!!!!!! THAT'S INCREDIBLE, MIKE. Isn't the whole thing mind blowing?? Boggles the mind sometimes.
I am having difficulty in wishing for a liver to become available...afterall, we all know what must happen for that to be possible. I know that we are not causing the death of the individual but still, knowing the suffering of another family while ours is rejoicing is a hard pill to swallow.
Funny picture you painted of you on your bike with the pager in your pants. My husband has not been on his since summer of 03 and has talked of selling it to help us out financially. I will not allow it. Although we are strapped for cash, it is only money and I think he needs the knowledge of it waiting for him at home. ( whether I can let go enough to let him actually ride it could be an entirely different story! hahahahahaha).
Anyway, so powerful for me to know that you are well these 4 years after transplant. Thanks Mike, I needed the encouragement from someone who's been there.
Be loved, Be happy Mattie
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Mattie, Ty for your beautiful words, we've 'come a long way baby'
and I have learned to measure my words, partly because of our little encounter...;-}. but caring has always been there and the desire to see things get better for you and your soulmate also.
I will not want my compassion overshadowed by pettiness.
I am still praying to whatever powerful positive energy there is out there for the well being of your loved one.
The gift from the grieving donor's family will hopefully be the start of their spiritual healing.
be well