I want to share my tough times and agony i am facing with you. Kindly guide me what i should do and how to go ahead in my life and live peacefully.
I am a male of 26 years from orthodox family( From India) well settled married to a girl of 22 years.Within 4 months of our marriage, when she complained of fever i took her to doctor and during routine tests it was found that she is a carrier of hepatitis B virus. Doctor told me to go for HBSAG test . I got negative and vaccinated. After taking 3 doses i also got tested for ANTI-HBS which was found out as positive. After this episode both the families fought because of her virus status and i always thought that the wife's family cheated me especially my wife and then onwards i always have suspicion on her. We separated for almost one year and later because of family friends and relatives we are together. But never live with peace. Here i am giving her hepatitis panel done during 2007 March
I have repeated her following blood tests again during 2008 September and 2009 April. The results are as follows
Doctor told that she is a healthy carrier and does not need any treatment. We also visited gynecologist about future generation, She told that there is a possibility that she can pass this virus to child even with available vaccinations.
Many times i feel why god gave me this much agony. Why this has happened to me.
During early hours just before get up from bed , this pain is so much that i can't bear it. This is one side. Other side is my in-laws are not supportive and always quarrelsome adding more heartburn to me. I had many sleepless nights. My parents also very much upset.
My wife many times cries because of her virus and we never live with harmony.
KINDLY GUIDE ME WHAT I SHOULD DO.
YOUR SUGGESTIONS ARE SO IMPORTANT SUCH THAT YOU ARE HELPING REALLY A NEEDY PERSON. Also please tell me Why doctor told that there is a possibility that she can pass this virus to child even with available vaccinations?
All of you please give your suggestions/ extend a helping hand to me.
i can understand ur pain, the more u think the more u ll b depress. So instead of regret of the pass why don't u think of the future. And also i believe ur wife did'nt cheat u, bcoz 90% of the people wth Hep-B does not know they are infected until n nnless they counter with blood test, it was happen to me.she must be feeling more pain than you, as a woman the well being of a child is more concern to her.
So my suggestion is that instead of tense, u encourage her that u both can live a normal life by just few restriction on diet and life style. Educate ur family members on Hep. and vaccinate them if not done, so that they are free from the virus .
Consult a good HEPATOLOGY and take care of ur liver.Gangaram Hospital of Delhi is having a good number of Hepatologies, if it is accessible to u then visit once, if not try to get information from them, they can even suggest u a perfect Hepatology available in ur city. Take care of ur wife, be on her side as she needs a big support from u. You will be free from all tension and able to live a happy family life. ALL THE BEST.
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