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Being far beyond the child bearing years, I cannot address your problem, but logically, it does not seem to me that the cirrhosis itself will create a pregnancy problem. Assumably you have been off the ribavirin for 6 months to even think about conceiving. I would think the bigger issue is your health and energy level and your ability to care for a baby as well as a 3 year old and another child. Would you be putting your health at risk? Would you be putting a burden on other family members to care for your children? In deciding to have this third child, are you thinking of the benefit of the child - that is you being a resource for the child - or are you thinking of how the child will benefit you? Sorry about that, I guess that is my ZPG politics coming thru, but I do think you should think about it. I was an adoptive parent, and was forced into that line of thinking so I do understand it. Best of luck to you in your decision.
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If my treatment does not work, I will still have another baby. It is my personal opinion, after months of agonizing over this, that their is a reason for everything. My 2 year old daughter DID get hep c from me, and for quite a while I had a lot of guilt about that. However, she is a HEALTHY, VIBRANT, BOSSY, SMART 2 year old and I wouldn't change that for ANYTHING in the world.
It is obviously a very personal decision, but if your health is not at risk by a pregnancy, a child (as you know) is the most amazing blessing you could ask for. I have a lot of optimism regarding a future treatment that will be much easier on the side effects.
My daughter sees a top pediatric gastro in Hep C research, and every time we see her she tells me that we have EVERY reason to be optimistic.
Good luck with your decision and I'd be happy to talk with you more about this. I don't have personal experience with the cirrohsis issue, but i've never had a biopsy so I really don't know where I stand. Stick around here, it is a great group of people!
I have 18 month old twins and I love them dearly but, if I had known what I was going to have to go through to get better, I would have waited before conceiving children.
If you are being considered for a transplant, you are much sicker than I am and you're gonna be sick for a while after your transplant. I just don't see how you're gonna take care of another life without A LOT of help.
Is that really fair to a newborn baby? Don't you think having a baby at this point is a little selfish?
I'm sorry. I'm not trying to be rude but I think some straight talk is in order. I'm usually one of the first to encourage women with hep c to go ahead and live out their lives but, considering what you've described, I don't think having a baby is right. Maybe I misunderstand the situation.
This is just my opinion. I'm sure others will disagree.
In my opinion it depends on if people are feeling sick with the hep or not and I don't think she mentioned either way. And, as you mentioned, support system is important! I would NOT have made it through treatment with a 2 year old if it weren't for my very supportive family. You made some great points in your post.
To me, your desire to bring someone into this world -- in spite of ongoing health issues -- shows that this new baby to be will be wanted, loved, and cared for. The rest, in my perhaps overly idealistic opinion, is gravy.
As some posters have indicated, treatment can sometimes be very taxing, so a good support system should be in place.
All the best with your endoscophy and if you get a chance, please stop by and let us know how things work out.
-- Jim
I am terrified of all this and believe me terrified that I wont get to see my children grow up but at some point you have to say- gee a perfectly healthy woman could give birth to a baby today and die in a car crash tomorrow. Yes I have a wonderful husnband and my parents moved across the street while I was on treatment so they are very close now.
Maybe it is selfish of me to bring a baby into this situation but I don't think that mostly because the child will be loved and cared for no matter what happens. Yes I want a child desparately but yes I am happy with the two beautiful boys I have. So really I cant make any decisions until I get my test results back. I would love more than anything to wait until I clear the virus first, unfortunately that may take a miracle and I may not be able to have a child afterwards even if I do clear the virus because of my liver damage. He said now is the window of opportunity- the question is do i take it?
I am scared to pass the virus on to the baby and worries about my health during pregnancy. That is why I am having the endoscopy done now to see where I stand, if I am getting worse and closet to being evaluated for a liver than I have no choice but to wait and not get pregnant.