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However as it is a blood borne disease - if you do happen to share blood somehow (a sore, a cut) during sex well it would be very possible.
We picture giant volumes of blood but we have to remember that there are microdroplets of blood that are invisible to our naked eye - and since the virus is so so much smaller than that even it is possible.
Just not so likely.
I was married to a man who had the virus and gave birth to two children. Didn't have a CLUE I had it. But the kids were fine. And they got loads of my blood and still didn't get it.
So if you see what I'm trying to say - if you practice safeR sex practices...you should be just FINE.
While it's not impossible - it is hard to get it that way.
But that also means that 1 out of a 100 couples could pass the virus sexually, and that would be more likely from male to female.
If I was in your situation, I'd have a frank discussion with your wife and lay out the facts. Is a 1% chance enough of a reason to use condoms during sex? How will using condoms effect your sex life and relationship? Let her decide because there is no right answer.
All the best,
-- Jim
Thanks
As for HCV transmission, I've heard some tales where even monogamous relationships can be as, if not more so, risky. But, that too might be a better topic for the other forum as well.
Thanks for your comments. To me a 1% risk of infecting my wife is unacceptable. As you said, that means a 1 in 100 chance that I will infect her.
On the other hand, the effect of condoms on the sex and relationship between my wife and I is a problem. When she came home and told me her doctor's recommendation, my response was that if we're going to use them we may as well not have sex at all. That didn't go over very well, and this has been one of the most difficult disagreements we've had in our 17 months of marriage.
After giving it a lot of thought, I'm now at the point of agreeing with you, that she should make the final decision. If she wants it with a condom, that's what we'll do.
Thanks again!
It is a blood to blood disease, you can not pass it through bodily fluids like Hep B.
Blood to blood would mean your blood would have to get inside her through a cut or a sore or something. SO far in 17 months she hasn't gotten it, right?
I agree the decision should be up to her, after all she is the one taking the risk. I would have been upset with you if you were my husband and didn't agree to whatever I felt comfortable with whatever had to be done to make me feel safe, I can see why you fought. Even the small risk of getting it IS avoidable. Try to see it from her perspective. If you undergo treatment you absolutely have to use condoms,it is recommended you use double condoms because it is so dangerous to risk pregnancy while on the meds. The meds can cause birth defects.One warning on the meds is that a pregnamt woman is not supposed to even touch the pills!
I and many others here have been married many years (27 for me)and our partners remain negative.
-- Jim