Am i at risk for herpes?

[teehee9393]

I went to get a massage 5 hours ago.

About 20 mins in, the girl gave me a handjob, she put lubricant in her mouth and slowly spit it onto my genitals, spitting more lubricant every 30 seconds or so. The skin contact we had are:

1) handjob from her
2) she kissed and sucked my nipple
3) I fondled her breasts with my hands
4) Lubricant from her mouth onto my genitals
5) I rubbed her vagina through her panties, no insertion and not vigorous rubbing.

Based on this exposure, am I at risk for HIV or Herpes?? she did not have any visible sores or blisters on her hands or on her lips area, though I am not sure about inside her mouth. My main concern is that she held lubricant inside her mouth and slowly spit them on me. She had a mouthful of lubricant, and every 30 seconds she spitted it out onto me. Virus or bacteria could have been transferred from her mouth into the lubricant and then onto me since she had the lubricant in her mouth for total of 5 minutes, spitting them out every 30 seconds or so.

[Terri Warren, RN, Adult Nurse Practitioner]

Extremely unlikely.

This is my last post on this thread.

Terri

[teehee9393]

Thank you! it really calmed me down. one more qn, I never had a cold sore before, so do you think that I could be infected from the lub in her mouth?

[Terri Warren, RN, Adult Nurse Practitioner]

I said herpetic whitlow at the time of your massage as a stretch because I think that is extremely unlikely.  I doubt that she would be giving massages if she had blisters on her hands or would have covered them which you would likely have noticed.

Urethral itching is not uncommon.  And itch now and then is nothing to be concerned about.

Terri

[teehee9393]

I noticed that I am having itchiness in my urethra! it is inside of my penis near the tip, does not hurt though. No pain or discomfort when urinating. The itch comes and goes just once or twice each time.

[teehee9393]

hi, I had the bump checked out, the dr said it was just a hair follicle infection, but then wouldn't it mean I have an 'open wound' during the time of the massage?  I never had a cold sore in my life before. so you are saying thar based on my sexual encounter, I am at a very low risk of getting herpes? also why would you say that she having herpes whitlow is a huge stretch?

[AllAmericanMale]

Might have been a penile wart that she/you rubbed raw.   I agree with Terri, it is too soon to have any signs of herpes.

[Terri Warren, RN, Adult Nurse Practitioner]

first of all, if you asking if the activities that you had with her of a sexual nature could transmit herpes to your genitals, the answer is  incredibly low risk.  Have you ever had a cold sore on your face/mouth in your lifetime?  If yes, then you already have HSV 1 infection and that is what you would be at minimal risk for from her saliva.  There is no risk from the genital rubbing through underwear.  

I'm not sure what is going on with the bump on the underside of your penis, but it nothing to do with anything infectious from this encounter, way too soon for sure.  

If she had an open herpetic whitlow on her hand, yes, that could be communicated through masturbation, but that's a huge stretch, don't you think?  

Terri

[teehee9393]

what if she has herpes whitlow on her hands or an open sore or blister on her hands thst I did not see? could it spread to me?

[teehee9393]

Oh i forgot to mention, I just spotted a bump near the base of my penis, this is 5 hours after the massage! The bump is pearly and small and slightly red, not pain though. When i picked at it with a tweezer several times, it bled, no pus. It was not there before the massage!!!!