A day after sex I had strange crawling sensations on my left leg. I previously about to weeks before had what looked like a herpes breakouT all stages on my left calf as well, that was scabbed over - it was probably three pink bumps close together, then rash red inflammation, then blisters red then scabbed within like 4-6 days scans are still present. My doctor wrote it off as molluscum and wouldn't test it - now that it's scabbed over I can't test it anyway which I wanted to for herpes. anyway three days after the most recent sexual encounter I had found a c-shaped tiny blister on my ankle which i wa shopping was a bug bite, over the next two days it grew in size, taking a picture I noticed multiple white bumps within the blister and the same c-shaped indent in the center..... I again think this is herpes due to the pain before it came, my penis had and still doesn't have any viable sores at all, I've had tiny tiny white pink kinda like blisters cultured in my pubic area they are completely painless but I don't think molluscum as they real so easily, one I found today is almost clear. If I can post photos here I will.
My symptoms started on sept 20th 4 days after sex with a male partner I'm male as well (if it makes any difference) I had a very bad flu and strep throats with white pus and burning urination, three days later it felt like razor blades when I urinated and blood came out- it hurt so badly I went to the ER all tests as in urethral swabs came back negative for everything including herpes. The razor blade feeling when I urinated hurt Donna do didn't want to urinate at all, the pain went away on its own in 4 days. During that time I had no visible genital sores or lesions besides a tiny like blister ended up forming a large red area that weeper clear fluid... it was painless though and negative with a herpes pcr. It took theee weeks to heal and left a purple scar.
During this time I've had protected anal and unprotected oral sex with two people after getting the negative results a few weeks after, both say they are clean but after the most recent encounter with my loose friend which is 3 days ago I have this blister on my ankle and bumps in pubic area.
Any advice...? I plan on taking a herpes blood test in January when it's been three months post exposure I hope I can get my ankle swabbed before it breaks if it does, as well as any guesses if the pictures I can hopefully upload look like herpes or not, again all somewhat classical looking symptoms have been on my left leg so far. I won't be having anymore sexual partners until then, after the last partner I also started feeling crawling sensations for two days before the ankle blaiterbshowed up, but for a primary outbreak on the ankle is that normal...? Thank you
These encounters where both loose friends that live in a different city than me now that I'm visiting, I didn't really want sex with either I have a problem saying no.
Any advice on dating with herpes as a gay male especially since I think that's unfortunately what this may very well be? The stigma for genital herpes is horrible but I ould always disclose so someone else doesn't go throw what I have, I always ask about status but people have lied to me, I'm tested every 6 months and normally test for herpes if something pops up with a pcr as well as get the igg blood tests every 12 months if I've been dating around and not in a solid relationship yet. I've only always been positive for type 1 -'d I assume it's orally, as the only pain I've had is since the last three enoucters which normally isn't like myself.