Can I get herpes via these acts ?

[GuyOct]

First of all Doctor thanks so much for helping out so many people. Here goes my question:

I had this incident in Las Vegas which I am really repenting from the core of my heart now. I generally don't do all this.

I was drunk and I took a private dance with a stripper and things went something like this:

1. I fingered her deep several times with both hands ( index , middle and ring fingers) without gloves or anything on my hands. While doing that something got scraped of her vaginal walls. It was sticky but semi solid and not very fluid. I had long nails at that time. I had dead skin just where nails meet the fingers and I am worried if HSV can enter my bloodstream from there. Also can HSV enter by getting under the nails or from sides of finger tips? What was that sticky semi-solid thing that came off ? I am very scared. Also I am pretty sure I also touched her vaginal fluid. And I am not sure if she was having periods. I did not have any visible open cuts or wounds on my hand or fingers. I also don't know her status.

2. Then she sucked / licked my fingers and then sucked my penis 3-4 times(5-6 minutes). We did not use any protection (condom or dental dam). Can this can get me infected ( Virus entering through the opening on my penis) ?. I had no sores or open cuts on my penis though and I am a virgin.

3. Next while sucking her nipples some fluid (I don't know what it was) came into my mouth ( not a whole lot but I could feel the taste difference) but I immediately wiped it off with my shirt( don't know how effective) and collected the saliva in my mouth and spit it too, although seem to remember I swallowed a little bit of saliva when I could not hold a lot of it before spitting. She said she is not breast feeding and did not seem to be in pain to suggest that her nipples were bleeding. What could be that fluid ? She said holding her nipples "These are mine" and then holding her breasts "These are not". I guess she was suggesting breast implants, but I am not sure.

After third incident I got really scared and 15 mins after I went to the restroom , washed my hands, masturbted and washed my hands again. 2-3 hours later went I reached my hotel I took a shower and cleaned my penis. This was 4 weeks ago and I had tested negative for HSV1 and 2 after one week. With God's grace I haven't had any itching, blistering anywhere till now and I am grateful to Lord God for that. I would appreciate if you could please tell me what are my chances of getting infected due to all this ?

I promise never to do any such thing again and to treasure all the good and simple things in life. May God bless you and all your near and dear ones.

Thanks a lot,
Guy

[slacker101]

Oh goody, I got blessed :)  

[GuyOct]

Thanks slacker101, God Bless You.

Have a happy and satisfying life.

[slacker101]

I think you will be ok. Having HSV is not a death sentence. To be honest, I would bet that you already have HSV1 since you were a little kid. That's how common it is. Chickenpox is a different type of herpes virus and we pretty much all has had that one. Do you run around worrying about that? That's the same with HSV1 except some people have outbreaks where it can be painful and blistery and what not and others no symptoms at all!! And as far as Waringblender, May the Easter Bunny Bless You!!! :)

[waringblender]

I don't need nor want to be blessed. But thanks anyway. As you can see from the avatar, I'm a non-believer. You might as well tell me I'm being "blessed" by the Easter Bunny or the tooth fairy. They're all the same to me - imaginary friends. And I don't need or want 'em. :)

[GuyOct]

Thankyou slacker101 for your reply. Its has been 4 weeks since my encounter and with God's kind grace I have not had any problems. Do you think I would be okay ?

You are right I am a very different person after this incident. I have realized how precious life is and why we should watch our actions and help others.

I thank you again. God bless you and waringblender, may God bless you as well.

[slacker101]

If she wasn't showing any cold sores on her face, chances are you are NOT going to get herpes!! I do have to make a comment here. You did all of this with this stranger UNPROTECTED!!! That in itself should have made you walk away! Since you used the God lines at the end of your message, I can see you are in desparate mode and praying you don't have anything. I doubt you have herpes but gonorreah or clymidia or NGU is always possible since she did do oral on you but these are easily cured.

[waringblender]

Great line about the breast implants. :)

[GuyOct]

bumping it up