The issue here is hand herpes and contracting it on the penis from a handjob.
Hand herpes (whitlow) is only contageous when a finger sore is present and if she had a herpes finger/hand sore at the time, she would not give you a hand job as the pain would be unbearable. Whitlow is very painful.
What your meaning here is really not something thing that happens.
Trauma to the hands? Non-traditional herpes areas?
Can you explain more in depth? Thanks.
I recently visited an infectious disease specialist to get some answers and he said the only way is to have some kind of trauma for the hands and other non-traditional herpes areas to be infected. He had me look up herpes gladiatorum. Other than the he said no.