It can be. Your protected one time exposure was very low risk.
Really? I thought HPV was much more contagious.
Your chance of hpv us very very low. I wouldn't be overly concerned.
Thank you. Also immensely worried about HPV. Would never want to give high risk strains of HPV such as 16 or 18 to a woman. I know this is a HSV board but do you have any numbers/percentages on the chances of contracting HPV?
In any case, lesson learned.
That looks like a surface cut that has opened up a little.
A herpes cut will usually present more a a dry slit, think of a deep paper cut. If you got pus out of it, then most likely not herpes.
Chances per episode are say 1 in 5000 with condom and assuming she actually had HSV2.