I recently started a new relationship with a man who is HSV1 positive and I was diagnosed HSV2 over 17 years ago. Before we progressed to physical, I informed him of my status, that I have been on Valtrex for about 7 years, I have only had 6 outbreaks the entire time, and the last outbreak being over 4 years ago. We also both insisted on using condoms. At that time, he was alright with finding out this information and we became intimate.
The next day, maybe since it wasn't in the moment any longer, he became increasingly worried and afraid of the risk of transmission of the HSV2. I attempted to calm his fears, but is there anything specific as well as where the information was obtained that I may provide to him?
He is a wonderful man and I do not want to lose him, but in his world, this may be a dealbreaker.
Thank you!