I'm finding it hard to date even though I've been married hv2, 27yrs valtrex 500mg for 8 to 10yrs. However, the last person I dated, the only one since the end of my 10yr marriage made me feel embarrassed and ashamed after I told him and he slowly disappeared from my life. Now I feel so insecure and I never have before this. When is a good time to divulge this information?