Thanks for your valued opinion's ladies - Its clear the situation needs further investigation.
When I did see the Genito urinary consultant he did say that the rash I had looked more bacterial in nature and that had it been herpes he would of expected to see swollen nodes in my groin area, that said I know that herpes can take on many guises and on occasions doesnt produce the typical blisters that are associated with the infection.
I'm looking to find a solid relationship and believe in being 100% truthful with people thats why i really want to get to the bottom of the situation before I get involved with anyone.
well if you'd stop being such a late night party hardy gal daisy...he he he
grace
Ooopss sorry Grace we must have been replying at exactly the same time there lol ..... now what are the odds of that happeneing considering we are a whole ocean and time zone apart lol .....
You need to see your Doctor it seems like you may have a Bacterial Infection of some sort that may need anti-biotics to clear it up,if not your Doctor may refer you to a Urologist for evaluation,I wouldn't worry about it being Herpes the symptoms you describe aren't classic Herpes symptoms at all,but you do have something going on there that needs checked out and treated ..... there are many Urological issues that can be confused with STD's so my advice would be to see your Doctor and take along your test results so that he is aware of what you've been checked for already .....
I'm sure it is something that can be sorted out fairly quickly with the correct medication
Daisy
odds are that this isn't a herpes related issue. You are testing clearly negative 4 months post encounter ( an equivocal is negative if enough time has passed ).
Bacterial infections and fungal infections can really do a number on you in the genital area - don't underestimate them! Continue to follow up with your doctor for your symptoms. You need an urine sample sent off as well as a prostate exam if you haven't had one already. also ask your provider if it appears to be a fungal related rash and discuss treated for a fungal related urinary infection too.
Also treat yourself to a good massage ( and the happy ending kind either! ). Sometimes when you have a lot of anxiety you tighten up muscles that you usually aren't tightening like that and it causes all sorts of issues in your body!
grace