with it for almost 7 months now and havent really noticed any kind of out break besides the initial one. I have yet to tell my current boyfriend (who i started dating a week or two before this), and we have not been having sex
me, then he went on to touch my back, then his gentials. Right after we were done i gave him a wet towel to wipe his member off , but he never washed his hands
I wouldn't worry about this. It's not really a risk. Add to that that hsv1 genitally doesn't shed very often either so it's not likely he had hsv on his hands.