Do I have herpes?

[Okaaaaay]

I've been dry humping with this boy lately like underwear to underwear because I heard this girl he had sex with had herpes and he doesn't know. Then it got really intense today, he had his penis out but I still had my underwear on and we were humping. I was touching his penis and his penis was going everywhere when we were doing what we were doing. His penis touched my thigh and I think my vagina lip? I told him the reason why I would never have sex with him is because I don't know what he could be carrying. He says he never seen a bump on his penis or burn when he pees. I know herpes can spread from skin to skin contact and his penis touched my thigh and my hand after we were finished I washed my hands and rinsed my vagina off with my hands. Did I catch it?

[nbem]

hey, believe ive been going through this crap for 3 weeks now, its very scary and it sucks, ive been to two doctors and gotten tested, TRUST ME tell him to get tested and make sure you see the results, i am a 20 year old male and would never want someone to go through this. im sure im okay and my doctors had its nothing but i still am waiting for my culture test, get tested if u had sex with someone else and make sure he gets tested. try and stay absence until its someone you truly love and ALWAYS you protection...god bless

[gracefromHHP]

have you been at risk for herpes if he has it? no, not if just dry humping with underwear on is all you've been engaging in.

I totally 2nd shipwrecked - you both should be being sexually responsible and testing properly for std's at the proper times.  also discuss condom use, birth control and gardasil shot testing too!!

grace

[shipwrecked]

Why don't you both get tested so you can know what your status is, rather than speculating?