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Fear for kids and wife
Hello
On a recent trip abroad (work) i went to a bar with collegues. Had few drinks and tempted by an escort/ prostitute.. Went to room and removed clothes, did some hugging, no lip kissing..I lied on top of her for few seconds naked.. scrotum and penis may touch her genitals then a bit.. put condom and rubbed penis between her *** crack for few seconds wirh no penetration.. trimmed penis two-three days before with cuts (one a bit deep at base of shaft but no blood at the time with girl) and nicks healing on balls.. these touched her genitals perhaps.. I stopped right there out of shame and went away.
I love my wife and kids and never cheated on her ever. I really regret what i did. I was really missing my wife and should have controlled my desires.
was i at risk? Skin to skin or wound contact for few seconds a risk? Can i get herpes here? will i need to test?
Its been nearly 4 weeks..i saw no blisters and all I fear to touch my wife..i fear i may give her something like herpes..please help me
I will never betray her.. i pray to God..please help
On a recent trip abroad (work) i went to a bar with collegues. Had few drinks and tempted by an escort/ prostitute.. Went to room and removed clothes, did some hugging, no lip kissing..I lied on top of her for few seconds naked.. scrotum and penis may touch her genitals then a bit.. put condom and rubbed penis between her *** crack for few seconds wirh no penetration.. trimmed penis two-three days before with cuts (one a bit deep at base of shaft but no blood at the time with girl) and nicks healing on balls.. these touched her genitals perhaps.. I stopped right there out of shame and went away.
I love my wife and kids and never cheated on her ever. I really regret what i did. I was really missing my wife and should have controlled my desires.
was i at risk? Skin to skin or wound contact for few seconds a risk? Can i get herpes here? will i need to test?
Its been nearly 4 weeks..i saw no blisters and all I fear to touch my wife..i fear i may give her something like herpes..please help me
I will never betray her.. i pray to God..please help
this really wasn't any risk at all for std's. it's your guilt that is your real issue here, not your risk.
grace
grace
genital touch (if ever there has been) was may be for few seconds. I had lied on top of her for really few secs..5 - 9 seconds...or less...fleetingly i would say
The virus has to be massaged into the skin, as with pentrative sexual intercourse. Your encounter was very low risk, and I think no doctor would recommend testing. Herpes does not spread by casual contact. If the woman had no visible sores, UNprotected sexual intercourse only spreads herpes about once in 1000 encounters. Since your penis MIGHT have touched her vagina, the odds are so incredibely low.
If you want to test for peace of mind, you will have to wait 3 to 4 months. Unless blisters appear, then you can have them swabbed by a doctor. I would not lose a minute of sleep on this.
If you want to test for peace of mind, you will have to wait 3 to 4 months. Unless blisters appear, then you can have them swabbed by a doctor. I would not lose a minute of sleep on this.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
