Feel I have Herpes and am Guilty as hell

[sickanp]

Hi there,
last friday 22nd july, I happened to have some casual sex with a women I met on Internet. I went for massage, but happened to be a spoilt women, and I kind of started the act.
I am sure, I did not insert mine into hers, and neither did I allow her to suck, and I had worn a condom. I am pretty sure, my penis did not touch her without the Condom.
I did however kiss her on her mouth 2 times may be about a minute max. since she was moving up and down I came rather quickly in about 5 minutes or less, and left the place.
I am now feeling slightly itchy on my face. I can see very small flesh colored lumps on my face, and find urinating just a bit irritating.
I am very worried that I have gotten some STD in that short period I was with her. I am married and I have a son, whom I kissed several times after that episode. I am scared as hell, that I will give my son this dreaded disease.
I am worried, and want to know if it is some herpes or some thing.
You reply will make me feel very better.

[gracefromHHP]

if you are concerned about the rash on your son's face, take him to his doctor for a proper exam.

[Mistakeguy789]

This could be anything.  I doubt this is herpes.  I think your guilt is getting the best of you.  

[sickanp]

Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate the work you are doing especially for being there to ask questions that cannot be asked to any other friend.

I am relieved to see that this is a very low risk. I however am still worried because I see that the red marks on my sons face is still there. Yesterday he developed one more bigger red mark on his cheeks this time a bigger one. There is no whitish pus formation yet. But since it only a day old it's probably too early to say.
Like I told previously, I still don't have any symptoms on me. Could it be possible that I am asymptotic and my son is symptomatic ? Or could it be something else and I am worrying because of guilt?

[gracefromHHP]

this is incredibly low risk for anything  in general and since you had a condom on, it was almost no risk at all.  we don't even recommend any testing at all from it.

[sickanp]

I did not have sex as in I did not insert. But we were naked and she was on me. I did kiss her couple of times open mouthed.

[gracefromHHP]

did you actually have sex or was this just a sensual massage?

grace

[sickanp]

Hi there
Couple of days ago I saw a small pimple show up on my sons face. I am now very scared I gave my sOn herpes. I don't have any signs of herpes on my face or anywhere. Please let me know if it is possible for my son to get herpes even thigh I dont have any signs.
Please please please let me know if I need to continue worrying more. I am unable to sleep really.