Fever, tingling thighs, is it herpes?!?

[andwhat1]

Hi,
8 days ago I received a massage that turned into protected sex. A few minutes in my penis went flaccid, we switched condems and she gave me a hand job. 48 hours later I began feeling rundown, 72 hours later I had 102 fever and felt run down and tired, almost 6 days later I began feeling "tingling" on my thighs. It's been 8 days and I've had zero lesions, what is the likelihood I contacted herpes? Could the tingling just be anxiety? Can the fact that my penis went flaccid made me an HIV risk bc condem wasn't intact?
Please help?!

[gracefromHHP]

no it is not, that was what I was answering to.

[andwhat1]

Thanks grace! Last question I promise. I meant does the flaccid issue create an HIV risk not just herpes?

[gracefromHHP]

flaccid isn't an issue.

if the tingling was related to herpes, you'd have obvious lesions within 24-48 hours.

[andwhat1]

Also, does the flaccid issue pose a risk?

[andwhat1]

Thanks, Grace. If it were genital herpes, would the tingling definitely lead to lesions and if so how long does the tingling last before the lesions? I plan to get tested anyway.

[gracefromHHP]

protected sexual contact is very low risk for all std's, including herpes. the odds that you contracted genital herpes from a brief period of protected sex are too low to worry about.  

grace