Aa
French Kiss and Fingered her Vagina, worried of Herpes 1&2 or STDs
Hello,
I am from Singapore. 2 Days ago, I met a 22 y/old girl from Thailand at my local night club. Apparently she's a student just graduated from college and is here for a short vacation with her girl friend. We exchanged social media profiles, and from her pictures I can see that she likes partying a lot. I am 100% positive that she isn't lying about being a student (so I assume she isn't the type that works in hanky-panky places.)
We drank some alcohol, and she invited me to the apartment she was staying. I know this is going to end up to be a one night stand, and honestly I've never tried it before and i was nervous, somehow i ended up there.
I am going to describe very carefully what happen in detail, words used maybe vulgar.
1. We french kissed for about 10 seconds.
2. She started touching my penis with my boxers on.
3. She started kissing my earlobe / chest / arms / back / nipple
4. We found out neither of us have a condom
5. Despite the fact that there will be no intercourse, she took her panties off, and i started fingering her with my right hand. (she's really wet)
6. We french kissed for another 5-8 seconds
7. Kissed her nipple once (not suck)
8. She put her hands in my boxers and stroke my penis (foreskin)
9. Then I was calling it off.
10. But she was turned on and wanted to give me oral sex
11. At the moment, I couldn't imagine that i'm actually gonna have a stranger doing it for me. (instant regret)
12. After I rejected her for more than 10 times (while she was trying to take my boxers off all these time)
14. I managed to keep my boxers on and she didn't had the chance to put my penis near her mouth ) then she finally gave up.
15. We hug and sleep for about 20 minutes, and i went home.
16. During the whole scenario, my hand that fingered her vagina did not go in contact with any part of my body.
After I got home, I started to get worried about getting herpes or stds, the reason might be very racist, and I want to apologize if there's any Thai here reading this. But because she is from Thailand, and i saw in her pictures that she has a close friend who appear to be a ladyboy, I started to freak out that she might have herpes or stds. Once again I would like to apolagize for being such a prejudice, but I just want to be honest.
Finally here comes the real questions :
What are the chances of me getting oral herpes from the french kiss in this case ? ( during the kiss i have an ulcer that was healed with no pain and the wall was almost back to normal but not a flawless recovery maybe 99%)
What are the chances of getting oral or genital herpes from the french kiss ? or worst STD ? HIV ?
When are the symptoms going to appear if i get oral herpes, and how long should i wait before going for a blood test check-up for Herpes 1/2 and STD ?
I am really paranoid and full of regret, thank you in advance.
I am from Singapore. 2 Days ago, I met a 22 y/old girl from Thailand at my local night club. Apparently she's a student just graduated from college and is here for a short vacation with her girl friend. We exchanged social media profiles, and from her pictures I can see that she likes partying a lot. I am 100% positive that she isn't lying about being a student (so I assume she isn't the type that works in hanky-panky places.)
We drank some alcohol, and she invited me to the apartment she was staying. I know this is going to end up to be a one night stand, and honestly I've never tried it before and i was nervous, somehow i ended up there.
I am going to describe very carefully what happen in detail, words used maybe vulgar.
1. We french kissed for about 10 seconds.
2. She started touching my penis with my boxers on.
3. She started kissing my earlobe / chest / arms / back / nipple
4. We found out neither of us have a condom
5. Despite the fact that there will be no intercourse, she took her panties off, and i started fingering her with my right hand. (she's really wet)
6. We french kissed for another 5-8 seconds
7. Kissed her nipple once (not suck)
8. She put her hands in my boxers and stroke my penis (foreskin)
9. Then I was calling it off.
10. But she was turned on and wanted to give me oral sex
11. At the moment, I couldn't imagine that i'm actually gonna have a stranger doing it for me. (instant regret)
12. After I rejected her for more than 10 times (while she was trying to take my boxers off all these time)
14. I managed to keep my boxers on and she didn't had the chance to put my penis near her mouth ) then she finally gave up.
15. We hug and sleep for about 20 minutes, and i went home.
16. During the whole scenario, my hand that fingered her vagina did not go in contact with any part of my body.
After I got home, I started to get worried about getting herpes or stds, the reason might be very racist, and I want to apologize if there's any Thai here reading this. But because she is from Thailand, and i saw in her pictures that she has a close friend who appear to be a ladyboy, I started to freak out that she might have herpes or stds. Once again I would like to apolagize for being such a prejudice, but I just want to be honest.
Finally here comes the real questions :
What are the chances of me getting oral herpes from the french kiss in this case ? ( during the kiss i have an ulcer that was healed with no pain and the wall was almost back to normal but not a flawless recovery maybe 99%)
What are the chances of getting oral or genital herpes from the french kiss ? or worst STD ? HIV ?
When are the symptoms going to appear if i get oral herpes, and how long should i wait before going for a blood test check-up for Herpes 1/2 and STD ?
I am really paranoid and full of regret, thank you in advance.
12 weeks for testing but igg hsv1 tests can miss up to 25% of infections. 4-14 days after exposure for a primary outbreak
The dots are not cold sores. I think you are over reacting a little bit
The dots are not cold sores. I think you are over reacting a little bit
Hey guys I'm freaking out.
I don't usually take close looks at the corner of both my lips. But just now I went to the toilet and say very small white dots that aren't painful, what look like "Fordyce spots" but I read that herpes has symptoms that look similar. I'm going crazy when can I take a test
I don't usually take close looks at the corner of both my lips. But just now I went to the toilet and say very small white dots that aren't painful, what look like "Fordyce spots" but I read that herpes has symptoms that look similar. I'm going crazy when can I take a test
1.What if I really got oral herpes, when will I be expecting the symptoms ? From when to when?
2. I want to go for a full check up blood test for herpes 1/2 and std, can I go in another 30 days ? Will the test be effective?
2. I want to go for a full check up blood test for herpes 1/2 and std, can I go in another 30 days ? Will the test be effective?
All in all you can firget about std's from this exposure. Hsv1 from the brief kissing while no cold sore was present isn't worth concern. You really had a safe exposure. Relax and don't worry.
Have an Answer?
You are reading content posted in the Herpes Community
Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
