HELP

I received unprotected oral sex from a women several weeks ago.  This was my second encounter and the symptoms of both are very similiar (first experience was in December).  I know there  is a chance i already have Herpes 1 based on childhood exposure.  However - I do not know that I had it growing up.

I realize that catching anything from recieiving oral sex is unlikely but ............

No visiable lesions on her.  

1) If she had Herpes 1 outbreak  - would there LIKELY be visible lessions on the OUTSIDE OF her mouth ? i..e on her lips - or inside her mouth ?  How often does oral Herpes 1 - show ?  

Almost the next day my penis seems to be very sensitive.  My shorts seem to irritate it, but there are no visible signs of outbreak, redness, etc....only a feeling.  No puss, no spots, no blisters, etc.  No burning - but it seems as if I do have to go to the bathroom often (not at night) - which might irritate my penis head i suppose if I can not get rid of all the urine and it dampens my shorts.  

I think this might be self induced too - if I had to go to the bathroom all the time, wouldnt the symptoms be at night too ?

Originally - I thought that vigerous sports may have lead to the irriatation.  Even that is interesting - if i am feeling this irritation, it seems to go away with vigerous activity and return afterwards.

2) If she had herpes 1 and i caught it - would i more than likely devlop sores on my penis as opposed to not ?

3) If I had unprotected sex with my regular partner - and if I  had herpes caught from Herpes 1- could she catch it within a week after my second encounter ?   A week after that she has a headache.  No fever - just a headache and is not complaining of any problems other.

I have been tested for STD's after the first encounter and everything was fine. (not herpes though) .  

4) Is a herpes test a waist of time based on my symptoms and description ?

I really think that I am a basket case from worrying and it might be making it worse.  I dont want to have a herpes test unless i absolutely need to.  I know that my  chance of having Herpes 1 - caught from childhood is a strong possiblity. This may actually CREATE more anxiety than it alleviates.  I will always wonder when I got it.

I dont think I have herpes - but your comments and help would be greatly appreciated.  

[slacker101]

You're being ridiculous because you do NOT NOT NOT have herpes!!! You are focusing way to much time on something that isn't there and if you do this long enough, every single speck on your penis and sensation which is and has been normal will appear to be abnormal as you are proving with what you wrote!! Move on with your life!!