HERPES 1 time with condom

[gonetilnovember]

Ok Saturday night , well Sunday morning march 12th me and a girl I known for about a month now had sex and it was protected the whole time.. lasted roughly 10 mins of that.. that Saturday night before me and her had sex I had to wear tight boxer briefs that usually slide between my upper thigh and genital area and it's some rubbing there it happened before.. then Monday after the encounter I had to wear basketball shorts because i forgot to do laundry and that's all I had.. I realize when I wore them it got really sweaty and wet down there.. so Monday night I feel something between the thigh and genital area so I started to panick I went to bathroom and didn't see anything.. it was a lil red but nothing on penis or bumps or anything like that.. so now I'm nervous all day.. once I'm at work I started feeling tingles in my left left and my shin has been hurting and my left foot has been hurting.. all on one side even my back.. could this be HERPES or more anxiety and my mind playing tricks on me.. she claims she is clean

[gonetilnovember]

Smh2345
March 11 I had protected sex no oral sex at all.. the night of protected sex the I wore very tight boxers briefs because I didn't have any others cleaned.. March 13th I took my daughter out and we did some walking , I only had basketball shorts to wear this day because I still haven't done laundry.. that night of the 13th I woke up with a slight irritation and some itching...so I got very worried and srtarted to check myself for bumps and rashes.. it was a lil red upper thigh inside leg right by the testicles , no bumps or blisters but some raw feeling and itching.. I'm so worried it might be herpes.. I mad a post already about this but I have an UPDATE! this morning I woke up with my eye being really dry and two lil bumps underneath top eye lid .. the bumps are not together but it's two lil small white bumps there.. is this herpes I might have picked up now it's on my genitals and went to my eye? Or could this just be a stye? Please help I'm freaking out..

[feelingundone]

It's clearly the circumstances and your stress level. It makes the mind wander in unhealthy directions. That area is rarely infected but common for jock itch and rubbing trauma. I get it working out. Don't worry

[gonetilnovember]

Thank you so much for fast reply.. if something would appear for the first time it would be on private part somewhere and not thigh? I just want to know where to check. Once again thank you

[feelingundone]

Don't check. Lol
You would most likely get it at the base of the penis as hsv can not penetrate a condom. Condoms are extremely effective for any single encounter. I wouldn't spend anymore time thinking about your exposure and herpes

[gonetilnovember]

Ok thanku

[gonetilnovember]

Also it has been some itching though but nothing to the extreme ..  and I really don't see anything down there. Is it still to early to have a breakout ?? I haven't had sex with my girlfriend yet but I don't know what to do if she tries.. I'm scared I might have genital herpes!! Only thing I would have came into contact with on the girl is maybe her though rub against mine.. please someone help I'm freaking out.. all my other std was negative before this incident they don't check for herpes at health department unless they see something down there