Hello -
I recently had unprotected vaginal and oral sex with a man (we used a condom once) who is significantly older than me. Until sleeping with me, he claims he has been faithful to his girlfriend of over 12 years and neither have had any herpes symtoms. I know that he has had more sexual partners than me in his lifetime, though I don't think he has ever been promiscuous. I have also never engaged in promiscuous sex, and have only had intercourse with monogamous partners during long term relationships. This is the first time I have ever had pain or STD symptoms, almost all of my experiences in the past have been 'normal' (realize now that asymptomatic is probably a better word).
After sex with him, I noticed burning while urinating (thought it was a UTI) and intense pain on my labia, which I discovered had swelled up like a pimple and turned into a cold sore. This was extremely painful for about a week and the cold sore eventually went away, but I still feel pain during urination (it is now almost 3 weeks after the initial outbreak). I got tested at Planned parenthood, but was not able to culture the cold sore because it was almost healed by the time I got an appointment. My igg test results are:
HSV 1 IGG AB >5.00
HSV 2 IGG AB 4.12
Based on the labs, it seems that I am unequivocally positive for HSV 1 & 2. However, there are several posts on this forum that say that any HSV2 reading under 3 might be a false positive. He was igg tested HSV1+ and HSV2-, which has me shocked because I was almost positive that he had given me something. Now I am afraid that I may have transmitted it to him. I have asked him to get retested again due to the high number of false negatives.
My questions are:
Based on the numbers above, is there any chance that I could have a false positive for my HSV2 reading?
What does it mean to have a 'high' igg reading? Does it mean there are large numbers of antibodies in my blood and my immune system is working harder than normal to fight the virus?
Is it worth getting igg tested again, and/or getting a WB test to be absolutely sure?
Is it possible that the cold sore on my labia was an HSV1 sore transmitted via oral sex, since he was HSV1+?
Thanks in advance,
CHCL