Hi, how did he test positive for genital hsv? If a swab was performed positive then most likley what has happened is that youve had oral hsv1 from childhood and passed it to him from oral sex. (just a theory). And once a person has an established infection in one area they are basicly immune to contracting it in another.
Most adults have hsv1. For most adults, it is oral. Only about 20-40% of folks who have hsv1 orally get obvious cold sores to know that they are infected.
Since you can't recall symptoms in either location, pretty safe to assume that your hsv1 is oral. Hard to tell if you contracted it from your husband or if you had it previously and it just didn't show up on your original testing ( it's harder to detect on blood tests than hsv2 is ).
If your husband gets genital recurrences more often than once every other year or so, I'd err on the side of caution and try to track down that lesion culture result though odds are it wasn't typed anyways. At this point, assume he does have hsv1 genitally. You also have hsv1 so it's really a non-issue in your relationship other than avoiding sex anytime he has a genital recurrence just for comfort reasons.
grace
Tell us about the test you took and any numbers involved.
He did have a swab awhile before we got married but he didn't pay attention to whether it was 1 or 2. When he had his blood drawn after I got my result it didn't show anything but hsv1. Also I had full bloods done before we got married same as he did so I know I didn't have it before