Your recurrence history is more consistent with HSV 2 than HSV 1, but we shall see.
Terri
I am actually going for an IGG test today. I decided it would be helpful to know for sure what exactly I have since I was never officially diagnosed. I'm not actually certain my ex h ever was tested either or if he was just diagnosed based on visual exam. I assume it is HSV 2 but would be nice to know for sure. He never got that many recurrences (every year or two and that was without meds). It would be nice if it turned out to be HSV 1 instead since the transmission rates are lower.
I have not told the new guy yet but plan to. I am praying he has it too so it will be a non-issue. If not, we will for sure use condoms 100% of the time and I am already on Valtrex anyway.
The 2% figure comes from research from couples that are discordant, that is, one is infected and the other is not. If 100 couples in a study where one has herpes and the other does not, and the woman has HSV 2 and the man does not, and they have sex an average of twice per week and she takes daily antiviral therapy and they use condoms infrequently, at best and they avoid sex with any outbreak signs or symptoms, 2 men in that group will get infected.
I am assuming your are on daily suppression and you will be using condoms and he knows about the herpes, right? Has he been tested to determine if he is or is not infected already? If not, he should be tested to see if there is really anything to worry about.
Terri