I can best help you if you get copies of your blood tests and post their numeric values here - ie hsv1 igg 5. 6 and hsv2 igg 2. 9 or whatever they are. that way we can see if you need additional testing done to confirm your hsv2+ result.
so why would he be hsv1+ and you be hsv2+? Well that would mean that you had hsv2 prior to meeting him. Did you have other partners before you got married ever?
grace
We each had blood tests run.
How were each of you diagnosed for starters?
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