HSV2 - Transmition and Doubt (PLEASE HELP)

I had an exposure to someone who could had the Herpes...

I went to a doctor because some red dots. Pain and blisters appeared on my penis..

He told me that it looked like herpes.. But i had to get checked on the lab..
I went and got negative to all.. Appeared to be Chlamydia..

Ok.. That was on July 2007 and on april 2008 I had urge to go pee a lot.. went to the dr.. and they checked if i still had the chlamida.. They did culture.. And nothing...

Ok on Sunday November 2009... I had a back pain.. and next day my penis hurt a little bit.. I was with my gf for that weekend.. We had intercourse with some new condoms.. ones with small balls to stimulate more... Ok
Then as i am very nervous guy i started to think it was that i had herpes and the test back then were false negative.. I searched for blisters.. on my penis.. and saw something but as we all know if you dig and dig to find something you are going to find... But i was something that i could not defined.. even with a magnifying glass..
I went crazy begin bathing with warm water.. blow dry it;..Now is wednesday and i dont see nothing on my penis yet.. I dont know if i had a small outbreak or what...

The thing is that my gf told me that she was feeling something wrong in her vagina.. That she thinks it was the new condoms.. Im afraid that i spread the herpes to her.. Even if i don't really now if i have..
But its too coincidence..

What do you think???

If the test came negative.. on april.. why is that???..

does the test shows that you are positive ONLy when the outbreaks is out???..
Or it should appear positive always even if you have no outbreak???

HELP MEEE!!

Thanks

[javier61]

Please need advise!!!

[javier61]

Plus she told me that it hurts and burns on her vagina!!

I really need help please!!!

Someone!!