You are most welcome
Terri
Thank you so much for your reply. I will certainly call your clinic and order the WB test to double check my HSV status. I agree that it will help me move on with life faster. I will let you know how this turns out. Thank you so much!
It is possible that you could have this and not transmit it, yes. Transmission happens more often when people don't know they are infected than when they do (for obvious reasons), but women transmit less often to men than the reverse, given the anatomy of intercourse.
Yes, 3.9 is a number we don't usually confirm, but I have had a few people who test positive with 4.8 on the screening IgG who do not test positive on the western blot, and in this case, I would believe the western blot. If you want to get a western blot, it might help you move on with a life with herpes, if it is positive, rather than wondering forever if it is correct. Our clinic can help you with this yes, or you can order a test kit from the University of Washington to be sent to your health care provider to draw blood and send back to them. It doesn't matter what state you live in for either option.
This isn't a terrific thing to find out, for sure, but if you truly are positive, there are measure that you can take to reduce the risk of infecting someone else, which I would bet matters a lot to you. If you take daily suppressive medicine, you can reduce the risk of infecting someone else by half. You can avoid sex with symptoms, you can encourage partners to be tested to see if they might also be infected and not know it. My book about herpes, The Good News about the Bad News, can help you with how to tell partners about your herpes (if you confirm as positive). I think it might be helpful for you.
Do let me know how this turns out.
Terri