no but i know it was that as i had a cold sore on my mouth and swollowen gums however i also shared a drink with someone few days before so it could have been that
Were you tested for herpes? On an average, those that have ourbreaks from a recent infection, do so in the first week, not 20 days later.
well i kissed a girl first time deep kissing and 20days later i had my first outbreak
That would be unusual, it seems more likely you've had oral HSV1 for much longer. What were the circumstances surrounding the infection, how was it diagnosed?
no but i got hsv1 like last month
It is more likely that you have had oral HSV1 since your youth. As such, you will not become infected in another location with HSV1.
Have either of you tested for HSV?
What you describe does not sound like genital herpes.