Herpes, what is my risk ? please help

[DannyGR]

Hi all,

I was semi-drunk and I had a gay guy with me in that time. We were alone , and he wasn't drunk . I'm not gay , but while I was in that situation , he convinced me to have sex with him. In fact , it was not sex , but it was considered touching.  I was sucking his nipples and kissing his chest. There was no kissing on lips or sucking. After my sucking and kissing his nipples I was putting my penis between his thighs . The only thing that happened which make me now very concerned  that while I was putting my penis between his thighs, only between thighs , there was no pentration, his thighs were wet . I asked him what is this , he said that he has just washed his a ss. I grabbed a tissue and wiped my penis . and I completed touching his thighs in another position. This wet thighs are a big concern for me . I feel guilty and this  adds more fear for me. I don’t know what is HIV status for this person , and I'm sure that I'm not gonna see him again to ask him about that . I'm just wondering what was that wet in his thighs . if he has just finished washing his a ss after the bathroom , can this transmit Herpes? If that was his sweating , can this transmit Herpes? what is the risk of me of having Herpes now ? Do I need to test?

Please help me and answer me. It has been 2 days and I couldn't stop thinking about this.

[DannyGR]

Thank you so much .

[gracefromHHP]

if you have symptoms, you need to be seen and get checked out. as I already said, you can get herpes from just skin on skin contact but the risk is really small and not worth any testing unless you have obvious lesions appear.

grace

[DannyGR]

Please experts , can any one help me with his knowledge ?

[DannyGR]

Please any one can help . I undestand that Herpes can be transmitted by skin to skin contact ,and now I'm reading an answer which tells something against this. My situation was skin to sking contact . I was putting my penis between the thigs in very painful way , and now my penis is hurting  me. Please can anyone tell me what's my risk in details? should I worry about it ? should I go to test to reast my mind from all concerning and the feeling of guilt that I'm going through?

[DannyGR]

Thank you so much for your answer . I'm just worry about that my penis now is hurting me cuz I was puting it in the area between thighs hardly. What if there is outbreaks in there ? actually , I don't remember is there is outbreaks or not ,and I understand that touching the outbreaks can infect others.

[gracefromHHP]

this was not a risk for hiv as I'm sure you've already been told in your hiv posts.

this really wasn't a risk for herpes either. yes skin on skin contact is a risk but it's a very, very low risk.

honestly this isn't worth any testing whatsoever.

grace