Hi,
I had an episode of one-time unprotected sex back in September and have been worried about herpes since I started getting leg pain and random spots that disappear within a day or two at random times since April. The girl i slept with tested for everything, including swab, pap smear and recently a blood test for herpes. She was negative. Is it possible that the antibodies were not detected because she has had no symptoms? I have had a swab and visual exams only because all doctors i saw have said its not herpes and don't recommend testing. Other symptoms i have had are inability to empty my bladder fully (still a bit of pee in the urethra after i finish) and constipation/ stool coming out in small amounts.