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Herpes from unprotected oral from SW
I am a male and had unprotected oral from a SW (female) yesterday. I thought she will condom so i didnt pay attention. Later on, i find out she wasn't. She did complete the whole session but majority of the time were simplify using hands. Total time my penis was actually in her mouth should be no more than 1 minute. She has no sign of sore or blister on her face at all. But i am panicing.
I then I spent hours on the forum and read almost every thread. I learned a lot. Can anyone please verify if my findings are correct? My only concern is herpes since the rest of STD are treatable.
1. Assume the SW has HSV1, then its possible to get HSV1 from unprotected oral during no OB period, but the chance is the same as hitting lottery?
2. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, the symptoms and recurrent OB will be minimum to none?
3. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, as long as me and my future female partner (single now) prevent sex/oral during outbreak AND i will be on medication daily, it is safe to have unprotected sex/oral for the rest of the year?
4. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, that will prevent me from getting it orally?
5. The chance of transmission HSV1 from genital to genital is minimum to none?
6. After the SW event, within 10 minutes, I bought some 90% Isoprophy Alcohol and clean my entire penis, balls, and i even try to flush some of the alcohol down the urethra. Will this do anything as far as killing the virus? Well obvious my urethra still hurts a little from doing that.
I then I spent hours on the forum and read almost every thread. I learned a lot. Can anyone please verify if my findings are correct? My only concern is herpes since the rest of STD are treatable.
1. Assume the SW has HSV1, then its possible to get HSV1 from unprotected oral during no OB period, but the chance is the same as hitting lottery?
2. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, the symptoms and recurrent OB will be minimum to none?
3. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, as long as me and my future female partner (single now) prevent sex/oral during outbreak AND i will be on medication daily, it is safe to have unprotected sex/oral for the rest of the year?
4. If i happened to get HSV1 in genital, that will prevent me from getting it orally?
5. The chance of transmission HSV1 from genital to genital is minimum to none?
6. After the SW event, within 10 minutes, I bought some 90% Isoprophy Alcohol and clean my entire penis, balls, and i even try to flush some of the alcohol down the urethra. Will this do anything as far as killing the virus? Well obvious my urethra still hurts a little from doing that.
asking about herpes and getting tested for it ( along with other std's ) is being sexually responsible. Nothing awkward about it - it's what we all should be doing!
My main concern is HSV1. What i see so far is that not everyone is aware of their HSV status, especially if they weren't sexually active and dont get testings done. However, since when HSV1 orally is so common (lukcy me still doesnt have it), kissing with a newly met girl can get me contracted. It will be very awkward to ask every girl i met in the future about their HSV status before we get into relationship (even kissing), not to mention they might not even know their own status. So there is a 50% chance i will met someone with HSV1 orally, not to mention majority of US population has it. If i just intentionally infect myself on the lower leg, i never ever need to worry about contracting it on my face or penis.
Not many of us make it to the old folks home without hsv1. It's incredibly common. If you and your partners get tested and take precautions if they do have hsv2 you can keep your risk down to 1-2%/year of contracting it from them. why in the world would you purposefully infect yourself with something when you can avoid it with a little effort?
This might sound stupid but.. my HSV1 and 2 status are both negative from test 3 weeks ago.
Instead of worrying about catching it for the rest of my life, what if i just intentionally have somebody spread it to my lower leg. I can make a small cut so virus can get it. This way, i will develop anti-body and i will never need to worry about catching it anywhere else on my body or spread it to my future half. I also dont need to worry about my future half's HSV status. Even if i get OB, it still stays on my lower leg only.
Instead of worrying about catching it for the rest of my life, what if i just intentionally have somebody spread it to my lower leg. I can make a small cut so virus can get it. This way, i will develop anti-body and i will never need to worry about catching it anywhere else on my body or spread it to my future half. I also dont need to worry about my future half's HSV status. Even if i get OB, it still stays on my lower leg only.
I spoke with the store manager yesterday and she said she tests the ladies twice a month.. i think she meant year. She might be lying but consider its a store front massage business (not legal though), i tend to believe her.
Anyhow, 2 days now and no symptoms so far.
Anyhow, 2 days now and no symptoms so far.
there are legitimate brothels/ escort services where they do get their workers tested regularly and have rules regarding herpes infected clients and workers. In general though you are being really naive if you believe that someone who is supporting themselves through sex for money is that 'safe'.
I'd say we all need to be accountable and responsible for our own actions. Know your partners STD status prior to having sex with them. Otherwise, don't have sex with them.
thanks for the comments, the alcohol irritation only last about a few hours. Now i feel perfectly fine.
I dont know if there are any SW on this forum but i assume even if they do have STD, they will either seek cure or avoid clients during OB? Since they live on providing service, they wouldn't want to upset their clients.
I dont know if there are any SW on this forum but i assume even if they do have STD, they will either seek cure or avoid clients during OB? Since they live on providing service, they wouldn't want to upset their clients.
washing up after sex/oral sex doesn't do anything to reduce your std risk. Using alcohol on your genitals to cleanse does nothing but to cause you more issues than you would've had had you done nothing at all. in the future, never use rubbing alcohol ( or purell or similar products ) on the genital area.
Really your risk was incredibly low for contracting anything. We never recommend any testing from receiving oral unless you have symptoms. Unfortunately you irritated your sensitive genital skin a lot now probably with the rubbing alcohol so any symptoms you do get, most likely are from that and not a std but it'll be difficult to know. At this point just leave your hands off of your genitals and don't use anything other than a mild soap in the shower to clean with. If you get any obvious symptoms, see your provider promptly.
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Really your risk was incredibly low for contracting anything. We never recommend any testing from receiving oral unless you have symptoms. Unfortunately you irritated your sensitive genital skin a lot now probably with the rubbing alcohol so any symptoms you do get, most likely are from that and not a std but it'll be difficult to know. At this point just leave your hands off of your genitals and don't use anything other than a mild soap in the shower to clean with. If you get any obvious symptoms, see your provider promptly.
grace
You did STD test everything was negative, then you had oral sex yesterday? Am I right?
If your encounter was yesterday then you need to test after 3 months for herpes.
1.Its Possible.
2. If you infected HSV1 on gential the symptoms will show in 2-3 weeks or non.
3. Yes
4.I'm not sure, otherwise you pass on by yourself its very rare but you won't infected again by HSV1.
5.Doc says in this forum.
6.You couldn't kill the virus by washing alchol.
Read this http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HSV-Clarifications/show/1306350?personal_page_id=1829211
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HSV1-vs-HSV2/show/544216
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Help-with-HSV/show/408005
If your encounter was yesterday then you need to test after 3 months for herpes.
1.Its Possible.
2. If you infected HSV1 on gential the symptoms will show in 2-3 weeks or non.
3. Yes
4.I'm not sure, otherwise you pass on by yourself its very rare but you won't infected again by HSV1.
5.Doc says in this forum.
6.You couldn't kill the virus by washing alchol.
Read this http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HSV-Clarifications/show/1306350?personal_page_id=1829211
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HSV1-vs-HSV2/show/544216
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Help-with-HSV/show/408005
In addition:
I just did a complete STD test about 3 weeks ago and everything is negative.
I just did a complete STD test about 3 weeks ago and everything is negative.
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