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Herpes hand job and frottage

Here’s my situation. Full body massage from “fully clothed- tshirt and shorts” female masseuse. Proceeded to a hand job, with limited participation (2-3 tugs) from masseuse and most of the work by me. Masseuse proceeded to get on top of me (always clothed), while I lay on table facing up naked. She pulled a towel over my genital region to prevent any contact with her clothes (ensuring barrier between us). She proceeded to grind her body against mine (is there any viral shedding contraction risk? with contact to thighs/legs/stomach) , while I tugged myself to climax under the towel. Once done she cleaned me up with hot towel. No self touching from masseuse through entire event and she remained fully clothed thru out. No oral/ vaginal/ anal contact with masseuse at all through event. Went and checked her hands 2 days later and no signs of any lesions. Tested 21 days out from incident and negative for CHLYM/GON/HEP/HIV/SYPH/HSV2 but was HSV1 Positive. 2.5 weeks out from incident had red pin head dots on penis almost in matrix format. No fluid. Showed penile lesions to a std doctor who did not suspect herpetic lesions, but more candida. Taken viral culture for peace of mind, awaiting results. Using anitfungal cream for penile rash which has helped a lot and is clearing. Am i at risk of Syph/Hsv2 contraction?. Your evaluation of the situation is most appreciated. Thanks
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15249123 tn?1478652475
Hsv needs to enter the skin. This us why the genitals are easy to infect. Thin skin and the point of most friction. Could someone be infected like you describe? Yes, but the odds are extremely low. For what you describe your odds are really zero. You needn't worry at all from this.
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Hey FeelingUndone... So im now 6 weeks out from the event described... Ive tested for HSV at 1, 2, 5 weeks and all have been negative with the reading remaining constant at 0.06. Ive had swab tests too at 5 weeks. Ive been told by a doctors, terri warren as well that i had no risk, and that i should not test. Its really hard to put this behind me.
Looking rationally
-no mucosal to mucosal contact
-no sex of any kind
-genetalia never in contact with body
-very short hand to penile contact (no lesions on hand)
-Body to body contact yes (legs to legs) etc
- no kissing/ or contact with her lips
Can i move on? Can i take a 12 week test and assume conclusive?
Really appreciate you helping calming some nerves here.
Also thank you for all your help.
15249123 tn?1478652475
My evaluation is you had zero risk of contracting hsv or any std from this. Hsv does not penetrate clothing and your brief hand job was no risk. I am extremely confident you did not get hsv from this.
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Hi feelingundone. Thank you for your note of reassurance. If i may ask a qt. Cdc states that genital contact with someone who has hsv2 is needed for transmission. My query is, do they mean genital to genital, or could they mean genital to say skin. Could say genital contact with the thigh of an infected individual(who may be shedding) lead to transmission. Or could say thigh to thigh contact cause transmission.
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