Oh good grief. Are you going to spend the rest of your life attributing every pimple or itch, in you or your family members, to herpes or something else dramatic? Get ahold of yourself. You've had as much reassurance as you're going to get here, and from your wife's doc. Move on.
Can someone please answer my follow up question I'm freaking out...
So my wife has since gone to the doctor and upon examination (no culture or test he just looked at it) he determined that it was a fungal infection. He then prescribed a anti fungal steroid and then made the infection disappear overnight. My wife said that the coloration even came back.. This should end my paranoia right?! Well then a couple days later my daughter had what seemed to be a pimple on the space between her lip and nose... Not on the nose nor lip. She aggravated the pimples (which are now more than one.. It Looks like two or three very small and one in the nose) they are red and scabbed over, cold this be a cold sore? Or am I just extremely paranoid at this point
As you suspect yourself, I'm sure this isn't herpes. Jock itch and herpes look and act entirely differently -- different locations, different appearance of rash, different duration, and so on -- and there are other genital area skin rashes as well, but none of it suggests herpes at all. Everything you describe is typical for jock itch or other dermatitis and inconsistent with herpes. It is conceivable you and your wife are sharing the jock itch fungus; her symptoms don't suggest herpes any more than yours do. You can expect her doctor to confirm it isn't herpes.