Herpes or staph infection

I have beem married for 8 years and recently divorced. I have a boyfriend for the last 2 and a half months. We got drunk two week ago and got a little wild in bed. we started having anal sex and than he stop and without cleaning put it back in my viagina. Before I could say anything. Two days later I started iching relly bad, I bought some over the counter yeast infection med. and used that. I was rubbing myself alot and had a sore on outside which I figured was from all the rubbing. Than I started running a fever and getting chills. I figured it was a bacterial infection and decided to go into my midwife. I told her what was going on and she started examing me. She said I have herpes and that my cervix does not look good. I lost it. She also said there is a lot of watery fluid up there, which I have noticed the last two days. I went and told my boyfriend and asked if he has been with anyone. He has not in four months, I have not in three, how could we get herpes. Today he went to doctor and hes doctor said he has a staph infechtion on is groin and base of hes penis. Can you get blisters in your vagina from a staph? Or do you think I do have herpes?

[gracefromHHP]

I have to laugh - you listed your gender as male but then in your about you section it says " I am a single mom"....he he he  might want to fix that!

At this point both you and your bf need to get type specific herpes igg blood tests to see who has what and go from there. I can help you both with your results if you need it.  

grace