Since having skin to skin contact (Penis to vagina, no penetration) oral sex and anal sex all without a condom about 6 separate times in October 2011, I have been having recurrent yeast infections, followed by UTI's. The swabs almost always come back negative for yeast, but the Dr.'s convinced its yeast, then I end up returning with a UTI ( I've had probably 5 yeast infections and 4 UTI's in a year). A couple of the UTI's have not tested positive either. This always happens right before my period. My symptoms are strange as well. For the yeast infection, I have burning and some discharge but no itching. The UTI, I have a fever, pressure in my pelvic area and a little burning in the area around my urethra. Neither of these occurrences seem to be what is normally experienced. I'm concerned these are actually mild herpes symptoms, and am concerned about my risk of exposure. The yeast infection goes away when treated with cream (3 to 6 days normally) Sometimes oral treatments work, sometimes they don't. The UTI goes away with antibiotics. I have seen several Dr's and all have told me that it's probably just stress, and fluctuating hormones causing the problem, but I'm very concerned. Previous to this exposure, I was in a long term relationship for a year and a half that was mostly oral and only occasional skin to skin contact. So I've only had two partners with skin to skin contact and only one with penetrative anal sex. My questions are as follows: what is the likelihood this is actually misdiagnosed herpes? If it's not Herpes, how can I make it stop ? I've been doing everything I can, but they keep happening and it's driving me nuts. I should also mention, I got a skin tag on my anus that has propped it open a bit, and sometimes I wonder if that skin tag, which showed up at the same time as these problems, has something to do with it. Like it could be introducing bacteria and yeast into my vagina. Let me know what you think. Thanks!