I had sex with a girl a month ago. Just recently I noticed there was a pretty large red bump in my pubic hair with a couple of hairs growing out of it. It was painless and I thought it might be a ingrown hair so I pulled it out. I got a little more red and then discharge some clear fluid from it. I thought it could be herpes, so I researched online. The bump didn't resemble any pictures I saw. I didn't have any of the other symptoms as well (no flu, aches, burning when urinating, puss, etc.) It doesn't look blister but it is red around it with a couple of red bumps around at the bottom of the pubic hair. Over time the bump has dry white skin around it. It looks just like an ingrown hair I have on my face, but I dont shave down there. There's no scab, but it is hard on top. It doesn't itch or anything. This morning I woke up and there we two bumps on the shaft of my penis. They were only slightly raised, but were kind of painful. It turned into more of a red rash throughout the day. I just wanted to know what this might be. I'm getting a little paranoid. I have already made an appoint to see a doctor but wanted to get some questioned answered before hand.