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Hi, I went to the strip club last night after a pretty long night of drinking. I ended up getting a private dance from a stripper. While I was getting this dance she did a position where she flipped upside down and put her private parts in my face. My face was pretty much only in contact with her butt area but I'm really really nervous I could have contracted a disease? I'm going to get tested tomorrow but does anybody have any advice or insight for me?
She had a bump that was below her butt, I'm not sure what it was but I think my face/ hands could have come into brief contact with it. I also briefly put my fingers on her vagina but never actiallu inserted my fingers.
I want to know my risk for hsv1 and 2 orally? and also would like to know what the difference in chances are if I touched or did not touch my mouth after touching her vagina and possibly the mole. If I did touch my face/ lips it would have been at least 10-20 minutes after coming into contact with her in the first place.
She had a bump that was below her butt, I'm not sure what it was but I think my face/ hands could have come into brief contact with it. I also briefly put my fingers on her vagina but never actiallu inserted my fingers.
I want to know my risk for hsv1 and 2 orally? and also would like to know what the difference in chances are if I touched or did not touch my mouth after touching her vagina and possibly the mole. If I did touch my face/ lips it would have been at least 10-20 minutes after coming into contact with her in the first place.
Sean, if you have a herpes concern and doubt the information you have been given then all we can do now is suggest that you have a herpes test 3 month from now or 8 weeks as an indicator. Other than this not much more we can do and do let us know your test results if you chose to test.
Best of luck
Dave
Best of luck
Dave
Are lips starting to chap a little bit a symptom of herpes, or could it be due to a slight weather change (low to mid 90's) to low 70's in a matter of days.
Certain parts towards yhe back of my mouth feel a little raw as well. Not sure if its something I could've eaten, or if it is a herpes symptom.
Ok last question is about the little bumps below the inside of my lower lip. They only really appear when I pull my lip out and down, but there is a good amount of them. I was wondering what those could be? And if everybody has those?
This should not be frightening as you risk is not something to overly concerned about. Really not an issue
Ok that's slightly frightening, but what kinds of symptoms should I be looking out for if i actually did manage to get infected?
Many time there are no symptoms but if they do appear, then the average is 3 to 13 days or so.
Ok cool, and say by the slight chance that I am infected would symptoms definitely present themselves within the 21 day window that I hear of everywhere?
Well what if I touched her vagina area and/or the bump below her butt, and then I went on to touch my lips sometime say 10-20 minutes after that contact?
Well what if I touched her vagina area and/or the numb below her butt, and then I went on to touch my lips sometime say 10-20 minutes after that contact?
Hi, from what you describe happening (having her butt up against your face) is not something to be concerned about at all. To contract herpes there needs to be some rubbing/grinding to force the virus into a nerve. Herpes prefers soft moist areas like the lips, so if no lip contact was made, this would not be any herpes issue in the least.
Folks can have naked genital contact with open herpes sores and still not contract herpes. Its not zero risk but its a close as one can get.
Folks can have naked genital contact with open herpes sores and still not contract herpes. Its not zero risk but its a close as one can get.
And also if I experience no symptoms within the 21 day window does that mean I have 0 chance of having herpes?
Believe me I'll never be going back it was a stupid drunk decision, I'm still going to be tested and look into everything just because I'm still a little bit nervous about everything. I appreciate the advice and support from everyone.
I went to a strip club once.A dorky girl from up.the street bailed me out of jail and introduced me to a friend of hers that stripped and the next night we all 3 went an hour up the road to an all nude strip club.I didnt really want to go cause i dont want my face to be seen in a trashy place like that.
After a few beers i got into the swing of things and got talked into a private dance.She danced to 3 songs for me.It was hot,i was starting to get claustrophobic..and for some reason i began to feel paranoid.I wanted to leave.When i stood up to walk out she shoved me back into the chair took a step back and did a hand spring towards me.The room was tight,i thought she was going to kick my teeth in.I flinched when she flipped her hips over and when she come down her legs hit my bad shoulder.I yelled out,but it was muffled because i had a mouth full of her cooch muff.I un tangled myself.It tasted like dog hair on a sardine.I broke free,she cussed me out.I said im gettin the F*** outta here B**ch.The stripper yelled for security.The dorky girl and her friend ran to catch up.I opened the door and held it open for the dingy girls I rode up there with.Before i knew it security grabbed me by my pants and shirt and threw me face first in the gravelled parking lot.And gave me a wedgie that ripped part of my pants.I got up and headed to the car.The girls hopped in.I was driving.Next thing i know the stripper ran out and said i owe her 60 dollars.I spat out some pubic hair and dirt.I told her Im not giving you sh*t.
I felt sick the whole way home.I hate the taste of sardines.Everything felt so wrong.I knew i shoulda never walked in that place.Next morning it all felt like a nightmare.Then i felt some bumps on my lip and my roof of my mouth felt sore.My stomach and chest was skint up.My a**crack was killing me..I went to the doc.He said i was ok and to not be going in that type place unless i wanted more of the same.Thank jesus I aint Never going back in there again.
After a few beers i got into the swing of things and got talked into a private dance.She danced to 3 songs for me.It was hot,i was starting to get claustrophobic..and for some reason i began to feel paranoid.I wanted to leave.When i stood up to walk out she shoved me back into the chair took a step back and did a hand spring towards me.The room was tight,i thought she was going to kick my teeth in.I flinched when she flipped her hips over and when she come down her legs hit my bad shoulder.I yelled out,but it was muffled because i had a mouth full of her cooch muff.I un tangled myself.It tasted like dog hair on a sardine.I broke free,she cussed me out.I said im gettin the F*** outta here B**ch.The stripper yelled for security.The dorky girl and her friend ran to catch up.I opened the door and held it open for the dingy girls I rode up there with.Before i knew it security grabbed me by my pants and shirt and threw me face first in the gravelled parking lot.And gave me a wedgie that ripped part of my pants.I got up and headed to the car.The girls hopped in.I was driving.Next thing i know the stripper ran out and said i owe her 60 dollars.I spat out some pubic hair and dirt.I told her Im not giving you sh*t.
I felt sick the whole way home.I hate the taste of sardines.Everything felt so wrong.I knew i shoulda never walked in that place.Next morning it all felt like a nightmare.Then i felt some bumps on my lip and my roof of my mouth felt sore.My stomach and chest was skint up.My a**crack was killing me..I went to the doc.He said i was ok and to not be going in that type place unless i wanted more of the same.Thank jesus I aint Never going back in there again.
Hi Sean96, the encounter is almost zero for herpes. I am not sure what the little bumps inside your lip are but I am pretty certain those are not herpes. If u r worry, u can go to a dentist and check but they are not herpes.
I think u r just really nervous but I seriously doubt u even have the slightest chance to catch any std from this encounter.... So please relax:).
Next time, maybe just not go to a strip club... So not worth it to get u this stressed!
Hope this helps and I am sure the more experienced folks will add on if I am mistaking.
God bless, S
I think u r just really nervous but I seriously doubt u even have the slightest chance to catch any std from this encounter.... So please relax:).
Next time, maybe just not go to a strip club... So not worth it to get u this stressed!
Hope this helps and I am sure the more experienced folks will add on if I am mistaking.
God bless, S
I've also noticed some little bumps on the inside of my lower lip I'm not sure if those are normal or not.
I've also noticed some little bumps on the inside of my lower lip I'm not sure if those are normal or not.
this is actually a couple of days ago now and I have started to feel a little tingling feeling in my lip area and around it a little bit. I can't tell if this is an actual symptom or if I am just making myself feel like this because I am so nervous. The feeling is pretty mild, and there hasn't been any burning sensation or redness.
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