thank you so much grace and Em....yeah my partner was tested so we are waiting for the results....and i was negative for hsv1. I'm so nervous, I cant believe it. Thanks again for your advice...i'm definitely going to retest and hope that its a false positive.
At this point I recommend your partner get tested for hsv2 and see what his results are. If he's negative then I'd repeat your blood test. If you can find a clinic near you that offers the biokit - you can get your answers for both of you in 20 minutes which I think would be very helpful for you! As emma covered in her post - there is a false positive rate wtih the tests so ruling that out with your low hsv2 result would be in your best interest.
grace
Did you have an HSV-1 IgG test done? Sometimes positive HSV-1 results will cause false positive HSV-2 results. Since your ratio is lower than 3.0, it is possible you had a false positive. My advice would be to get retested, possibly with a different test, such as Biokit or Western Blot. Herpes test results need to be taken in context. Since you have been with your partner for 8 years and do not believe he has been with anybody else, I would test again. Of course, I cannot guarantee that you had a false positive, but it's definitely possible.
Good luck,
Em