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How Difficult Is It to Pass HSV1 genitally

I've only been with three women, genital to genital sex.  Recently I noticed bumps, after months of sleeping with one girl, and was diagnosed with HSV1 genitally.  

I'm confused, because to my knowledge I never had anything before and can't really remember symptoms.  Also the girl I am with now claims she didn't have anything, and doesn't have any lesions etc.

I am not "angry" at anyone.  I simply want to know how to go about dealing with this now.  I've read HSV1 is a little more manageable than HSV2.  Can anyone tell me how difficult it is to pass HSV1 when you aren't exhibiting symptoms?  (Additionally, my outbreak was in a very odd area, pubic region in the hair)  

I'd like to be fairly certain that passing this to someone else is unlikely, and that seems to be the case from what I have read.  But any commentary or personal experience with a situation like this that anyone here could provide would be great.

Thanks.
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101028 tn?1419603004
ok not to be  totally debbie downer here but - unless you get obvious cold sores - there's no easy way to know if you also contracted hsv1 orally too at the same time as your hsv1 genital infection. We don't have many studies on this but what ones we do have - a significant portion of folks with hsv1 genitally also have it orally. Not an issue in your current relationship but something to keep in mind for future relationships.

grace
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Yay...immune to oral HSV1 !   Ha, that's not so bad...
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http://blogs.webmd.com/genital-herpes-intimate-conversations/2006/02/type-i-herpes-transmission.html
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Let's say that the virus IS shedding.  What are the odds it will be passed on during this time?
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101028 tn?1419603004
The herpes handbook at www.westoverheights.com is a terrific resource to learn more at. It's also helpful for potential partners to learn more at too.

Has your gf been tested for herpes yet?  Have you 2 engaged in oral sex? Hsv1 is almost always transmitted from the oral area to the genital area - you don't have to have obvious cold sores present for it to happen.

Hsv1 genitally sheds about 3% of days.  That means in a year it's shedding less than a dozen days total. The chances of having sex on one of those days is pretty low to pass it on.  If your partner already has hsv1 orally they are very unlikely to contract hsv1 genitally from you.

grace
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