Hi! All i can say is that I had HSV1 AND 2 for the past 9 years and had a partner for 2 years who never contracted and sex was always unprotected. Now I am married for the past 5 years with another person. We do not use any protection other than abstain from sex while a visible aoutbreak and he has never got in it. To add to all that we also have unprotected sex while on my menstruation days and he never develop an outbreak. Hope this helps.
No. The point is that for any single unprotected exposure with a known positive partner has about a 1 in a 1000 chance of contracting hsv. Add a condom to the mix and that effectively brings the odds to close to zero. I wouldn't be concerned. Honestly.
Your risk (if she has hsv) is so small from a single protected exposure that it doesn't warrant concern.
While I was fingering her she did bleed but I think this was due to my nails
She also told me she is on birth control do they test for that when you get on it ?