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A little over 12 weeks ago, I had protected vaginal sex but (stupidly) performed unprotected oral-vaginal and oral-anal sex on a female who was an ex-colleague. I also received unprotected oral sex on my penis. Unsure of her recent sexual history, I have since then been worried if I have contracted herpes due to the oral sex.
4 weeks post exposure, I had some soreness in my anus. I got it checked at a local GUM clinic and they told me it is piles. I inisisted on a culture test, which later came back as negative. I was not initially convinced that it was not herpes and was worried for 4 weeks before I realised that the symptoms around my anus may be nothing to do with herpes coz I did not "receive" anal sex of any type.
This made me realise that my symptoms, if any, should be around my mouth (as I performed oral sex) OR on my penis (as I received oral sex in this area).
I have never had cold sores in my life before. 8 weeks post exposure, I had a blister on the inside of my lower lip, which, again the GUM clinic diagnosed as a normal blister.
The doctors at the GUM clinic told me that they were convinced that I do not have herpes.
My question is that since I am well past the incubation period (3-4 weeks) without any herpes symptoms (as per the doctors) can I get on with my life with the conclusion that I have not contracted herpes?
I would like to get a type specific check done but not sure of a clinic that offers thes same in UK.
As mentioned above, I have not had any lesions/blisters in the past 13 weeks other than those mentioned (which the doctors ruled out as not herpes up on visual examinations). However, I have intermittently had pain on the side of my right thigh for the past 8 weeks which has become increasingly persistent in the last 2 days. The pain is shooting pain and appears to have spread down my right leg (although I do not feel it round the clock). Similar sharp pain in the groin as well occassionally. Is this anything like herpes? I have no visible blisters nor fever. Had some discomfort in my throat (having to clear throat frequently and little pain) early in the week.
I have also been experiencing slow clearing of urine in the last 8 weeks. The blood test and the scan for this problem have not found any issue with my urinary tract. So, wondering if this caused by an std as well?
Many thanks in advance.
PS: I was disappointed to learn from this site that PCR is meaningless when done on blood and Idont have active lesions. so, will have to continue searching for a clinic that offers IgG
In a freak incident, my kid may have come into contact with drops of my urine in the toilet. He has the habit of touching his feet and putting his hands in his mouth. 4 days later, he has complained of mouth ulcers on either side. I am terrified that he may have contracted an std from me. Are the ulcers due to an std that he may contracted from this episode? Thanks in advance
PS: I am awaiting my test results for chlamydia etc., and waiting for 16 weeks to complete for my hsv test
you can get false negatives but the risk of such is low at the 4 month mark which is why we recommend testing then.
it's just not worth a half year of your life waiting for test results when you can get them sooner. Terri Warren , HHH and Dr Hook all don't recommend repeat testing either if you are negative at the 4 month mark unless you have symptoms that are still bothersome that need further evaluation and at that point we recommend lesion cultures anyways.
I guess I did not wait for the exact 4 calendar month mark mark....I feel I tested a week too soon..
Exposure was on Apr 23rd and tested on Aug 16th...So, a week less if you consider calendar months...but completed 16 weeks and 2 days at the time of testing. Would that make any difference? I have always been confused about the mark. Is it 4 calendar months OR 16 weeks or 120 days?
statistically 1 out of every 3 kids has hsv1 orally before they step into kindergarten. It's very common. http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn_oralherpes.cfm has terrific info on hsv1 orally for more reading.
Thanks for your continued assistance in answering my queries.
I was speaking to a local support group and was startled to learn that a -ve blood test may not be all good news coz sometimes anti-bodies are never produced at all (even if the virus is present) which is why the blood tests are no good. They said that sometimes it can take upto an year to ser-convert and if one does not sero-convert after one year, they will never do so even if the virus is present in the body.
This made me feel depressed even more and was wondering if I will never know conclusively whether I am carrying HSV1/2 or not?
Oh good grief - the worst virus?? It's a mere skin condition for the many millions of folks who have it - many who never have a symptom
As to the worst viruses: How about rabies? It kills 55,000 people a year. Or Influenza? Try hundreds of thousands annually, up to millions in a pandemic year. And HIV? How about two million deaths annually. Can't say you'll find those stats about herpes...
I highly recommend the homepage of WHO for more information about any disease. Herpes is clearly not a deadly, or for that matter, serious virus.
At this point your posts are highly anxiety driven. As to Dr. H's post, it's the glass half full, or empty in your case:
"The giant majority of people who are negative at either of those times can be confident they do not have HSV-2. But almost all infected persons eventually develop positive tests, even if it takes 6 months or longer."
As Grace stated: "it's just not worth a half year of your life waiting for test results when you can get them sooner. Terri Warren , HHH and Dr Hook all don't recommend repeat testing either if you are negative at the 4 month mark unless you have symptoms that are still bothersome that need further evaluation and at that point we recommend lesion cultures anyways."
Lastly, even if you had HSV1 or HSV2, it surely is not the end of the world. I have genital herpes and lord knows if it's the worst thing that happens to me I will be VERY fortunate!
Thanks for your response. I call it the worst virus only coz there does not appear to be any conclusive test baed on which (nor a fixed time frame after which) people like me can put the exposure behind and move on with their lives coz
-- I may never produce anti-bodies OR
-- Test might be -ve on one day and +ve on the other
It's a very small percentage of folks who don't produce detectable antibodies. You've had a very low risk encounter to begin with . You've had negative blood tests. Odds are you would've had a very obvious ob if you were herpes negative and then contracted it - you've had no symptoms that sound worrisome for herpes. You've followed up on things with providers who have all thought you didn't have herpes.
please do not confuse your anxiety with real risk.
Well, it was a single encounter only in the sense that I did indulge with this female after that day but on that day the oral sex was performed few times (may be receptive only once but I performed few times). Is it still a single exposure?
No matter what, some folks who come here convince themselves they have herpes, regardless of testing and factual advice that's been told to them. Move on from herpes; you've tested negative.
As to kissing, your point is? If it's oral herpes, 1 in every 2-3 people you kiss has oral herpes, including people like your Mom and other loved ones. Oral herpes is not considered an STD, as many of us get it in childhood, and too, most of us never have recognizable symptoms to know it. By the time we make it to the old folks home, about 90% of us will have oral herpes.
Sorry one more question...are you saying that based on the -ve test, I donot have HSV1 or 2 and that I can resume "un-protected" penetrative/oral sex with my regular partner without the fear of transmitting anything to her? and live normally without the fear of transmtting anything to my kid?
Appreciate your responses to the previous question along with the question in this post.
I contacted the lab where I got the igg blood test done and they told me that they use the "ELISA Chorus analyser" method. What worries me is that the following link mentions that the HSV2 ELISA test used in the UK is very insensitive (50%).
Now I do not know whether "ELISA Chorus analyser" method is same as HSV2 ELISA test and wondering if my test results are only 50% accurate.
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