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Is it herpes or what!! sending me crazy

by worried_death, Jul 13, 2009 10:52AM
Ok so i had an encounter about 14 weeks about with a girl and the condom had split during intercourse. I was worried to death that it was hiv and was getting so much symptoms but alot were most probably due to anxiety and stress. What i'm most concerned about is the swollen glands i've had which came 2 weeks after the encounter and still slightly swollen today (in the neck). My uretha is also abit swollen and i also had gotten thrush from this girl which recurred 2 or 3 times. I've also been feeling this itchy sort of feeling which feels like ants crawling on me. It hasn't just been in the groin but all over my body it';s very annoying and creepy. I sometimes feel a dull ache in the testicles and minor stinging like pains in the uretha but theyre faint and arent continuous but the only thing is i DONT have any lesions/???? could this be herpes without showing???????  i've had numerous tests over the 3 months as i was 100% convinced i had hiv and have tested out to 3 months being negative, i've also had std tests and out to 3months all negative but i can't get herpes test as they don't do it without any lesions can you please help me :(

heres the symptoms i was getting from my so called "hiv"
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/HIV-risk-and-symptoms-need-help/show/983650
Member Comments (58)

by worried_death, Jul 13, 2009 01:15PM
someone?

by gracefromHHP, Jul 13, 2009 01:44PM
If you read our read before posting post on this forum you'll see that we try to get to all posts within a day or so. Please be patient - your original post was just 2 hours ago.

This really doesn't sound like herpes going on. It's been long enough now you can seek out a type specific herpes igg blood test to know your status. You do not have to have obvious symptoms to swab - a blood test is very helpful.

Continue to follow up with your provider for all of your symptoms but it sounds like they are not std related.

grace

by psp2002, Jul 14, 2009 01:02AM
I am in your same boat buddy, I have had symptom less "something" for over 2 months. I am convinced its herpes, but every (8+) professionals who has seen my penis say im crazy and to go home.

I just had a herpe blood test, so they do offer them,

by worried_death, Jul 14, 2009 09:21AM
when i smoke cannabis i feel like my penis is crusting on the end sensation and feeling like my penis has no function and going to drop off and i start having paranoid attacks, this is when im out in public then when i go and look at it theres nothing there and im like wtf? its as if its tookover my whole body control and i'm not working properly/. this ALL happened after this sexual encounter and i've tested negative for everything. i have to keep reminding myself i AM hiv-negative but it's as if i have a hiv WORSE related invisible illness which i caught from this girl that hasnt been discovered or i dont know :( my life feels **** "im sick and tired of feeling sick and tired"

by gracefromHHP, Jul 14, 2009 09:40AM
pot can cause paranoia.  perhaps you should stop smoking it for awhile since it's adding to your distress?

grace

by worried_death, Jul 14, 2009 01:38PM
can herpes does this to you? may it be a nerve problem duto herpes as i kno it can affect your nerves and i didnt feel like this until this happened so its defo something from her and due to my swollen glands and it not being anything else its just a coincidence ?

by worried_death, Jul 14, 2009 08:21PM
HERPES :(?

by gracefromHHP, Jul 15, 2009 07:52AM
I've already advised you on what to do next.  Have you made arrangements to follow up on any of that yet?

grace

by worried_death, Jul 15, 2009 11:19AM
not yet as tbh i really thought it was hiv and not herpes as i kept getting thrush and convinced it was due to hiv. i've only just got over the sever anxiety of hiv so my doctor just thinks everything is all in my head and has forwarded me to a pshyciatrist. i'm almost sure if i go and ask my gps just going to tell me she doesn't do it unless i have sores

by worried_death, Jul 15, 2009 11:27AM
im mostly concerned about the little pains etc needle like pains i feel over my body and little nerve twitches - muscle spasms. ive read on other places where people with herpes have also experienced loads of nerve problems? can it be herpes related because its a coincidence how as soon as the condom breaks i get all these feelings in my body as if my central nerve system is being destroyed and after everything being ruled out that is all it leads to. i'll try and ask my gp or maybe see what the pshyciatrist advises but if it is herpes it seems more then the normal herpes case. i'd rather have just some sores then this ********!!

by gracefromHHP, Jul 15, 2009 05:19PM
This was a low risk encounter in general.  

Following up with your psychiatrist at the earliest possible time for your anxiety about it all is in your best interest.  

No, folks who contract herpes do not get all over body issues like you describe.

grace

by darkaurum, Jul 15, 2009 07:12PM
To: worried
Hey dude

Don't worry about the anxiety, I go through it from time to time.  Unfortunately, there are two ways to make it better.  One is to very much focus your thoughts away from the bad ones, convince yourself that your symptoms aren't real or related, and apply your will to make the problem better.   Easy right?  Well, no, it's very difficult, I've only been able to do it once out of my many various freakouts over STD exposures.

The other, easier way, is to get the test, as I'm sure you're already aware from your negative 3 month HIV test.  It instantly makes you feel better.  So get the same thing for your herpes fears, and you're good to go!

Good luck!  

by worried_death, Jul 16, 2009 08:41PM
does herpes trigger off thrush? i seem to keep getting thrush ever since this encounter! my uretha is swollen and i also feel stinging like pains inside of the uretha and itching / crawling over my thighs tip of penis but no lesions?? i read on another post from Dr HHH that one wouldn't have no neurological pain without lesions but other places say the exact opposite? i feel as if there is no well explained detail on herpes unless one has sores grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

by gracefromHHP, Jul 17, 2009 12:21PM
Have you been back to your doctor about this?

are they diagnosing genital fungal infections?

Have they examined your urine?

grace

by worried_death, Jul 17, 2009 11:16PM
i went to the doctor numerous times they send me off to the nhs gum clinic. i go there they just say its thrush send me off with some anti fungal cream. ive used it numerous times and it goes away but then will start coming back again? i'm going to have to go in next week as its the weekend but i know when i go in she'll just talk a whole load of **** saying i'm fine and most probably won't even offer me a urine examine as i've tested neg for every other std.

by gracefromHHP, Jul 18, 2009 04:51AM
You need to keep using the antifungal cream for at least a full week after your rash has disappeared. Are you doing that?

grace

by worried_death, Jul 18, 2009 07:47AM
i done it the first couple times and it would clear, it'd then be ok for a while and return. it's returned 3 - 4 times since this encounter. i recently have only been putting it on when its at its worse. i know you are experienced but seriously from your point of view does it sound like herpes or herpes related nerve problems? because tbh you and even i would most probably have more knowledge then the doctors who just diagnose based on lesions. i feel itchy all over but mostly around my legs and get nerve twitches which is very annoying!!

by gracefromHHP, Jul 18, 2009 08:32AM
no this doesn't sound like genital herpes which is why I advised continue follow up previously.

grace

by worried_death, Jul 20, 2009 04:53AM
Ok so i went gp an theyre telling me its nothing. all they're willing to do is urine to check for any infection and theyre saying everything else is "nothing". theyre just telling me to wait for the physciatrist which is on the 14th of aug and sending me off with allergy tablets which i ALREADY have and have took anyway as i suffer hayfever. Im going mad here, i want to break down and i don't know how much longer i can hang on as they arent helping me with ****!!!!!!!!!!!

by worried_death, Jul 22, 2009 04:40PM
??????

by gracefromHHP, Jul 22, 2009 05:20PM
so they said they saw nothing rashwise?

grace

by worried_death, Jul 22, 2009 08:51PM
no she didnt even examine me. i told her i keep getting thrush and she said "how do you know its thrush" and i told her it's obvious and she said i should wait to see phsyciatrist just for counselling. all she did was take a urine for any other sort of infection non std wise i guess but what if that comes back nothing? what do i do from there

by gracefromHHP, Jul 23, 2009 05:02PM
If you have a rash then you need to go somewhere where someone will actually take a look at it. sounds like at this point they are fed up with you to be honest. If you don't feel that you are getting adequate medical attention at the clinic you go to, contact the clinic manager and talk to them about the situation.

grace

by worried_death, Jul 26, 2009 11:13AM
I've had examinations by doctors they then send me the GUM clinic. I had it examined about 2 weeks after exposure they diagnosed me with thrush and gave me cream. I applied cream it went away but then it comes back not long after not using the cream. Been tested for all stds except herpes, blood tests to rule out anything else and blood tests for hiv and syphilis. I've tested out to 3 months with nothing but i have weird body symptoms and weird feelings in the genitals idk what to do now!

by worried_death, Jul 31, 2009 09:30AM
Ok so i've started getting alot of neuropathic like stinging pains all over my body legs, chest, face, genitals, anus whereever.Headaches, muscle spasms. Ever since this all started i had quit cannabis but could smoke it daily, i then tried it again yday and started having a weird reaction to it.. my neck started swelling, joints going stiff, head feeling jerky (feels as if i can't keep it stiff, nerve problem?), and lips seem to swell. I've started developing acne which is very unusual as i never had it before! I'm starting to look a right mess and people can even tell. NOW.... the other day i got a spot just below my left nostril. it looked red and a bit sore, it also had a yellowish sort of head which is now crusted. It's just a single spot and im thinkin this could be herpes  type 2?  I also am not to sure if it is acne or herpes on my chin? it looks like acne but some bled a little and have a tiny crust. non are grouped together but they look like "cysts" kind of purplish in colour.
I already have hsv1 as i caught it as a child like almost everyone else over here but i've only had an initial outbreak when i was about 8 or something and i cannot imagine it being that. I seriously am finding it hard coping as im getting no help whatsoever and EVERY SINGLE PERSON IVE BEEN TO THINKS ITS IN MY HEAD!!!!!!!!! FFS IM NOT STUPID. does it sound like herpes to you? could i develop type 2 on my face even though having type 1?
Also ive noticed when my penis is hard it feels as if it is actually tooo hard like my tube is inflamed and has a sort of undescribable pain. It feels horrible!!

by gracefromHHP, Jul 31, 2009 01:36PM
Herpes doesn't cause symptoms like this. Perhaps you have recently contracted a different viral infection or something?  Could even be a bacterial infection on the facial area too.

I know it's frustrating but follow up on your new symptoms with your regular doctor. since they aren't just in the genital area, no need for the gum clinic.

grace

by bm504gurl, Jul 31, 2009 11:15PM
Maybe you might want to see the male version of a gynecologist? Im not sure what the equivilant is but perhaps this would help out?

by gracefromHHP, Aug 01, 2009 06:45AM
To: bm504gurl
The gum clinics cover both males and females.

An urologist covers the "plumbing" issues for males. I don't recommend them for genital rashes though - if it's not a peeing problem, they tend not to be all that concerned about it.  

grace

by worried_death, Aug 01, 2009 09:01AM
So who do you recommend me seeing as I KNOW if i go to my doctor she wil say "its nothing its anxiety, the spots are nothing, bla bla" when you can blaitently see them. I dont know what else to think it is? you say its not herpes related but after ruling out everything else what else could cause BOTH neuropathic pains, skin problems and problems with my genitals after a sexual exposure!!!!!!!!

by gracefromHHP, Aug 01, 2009 12:24PM
I can not help you if everyone is writing you off as anxiety. they are actually seeing your symptoms and should be doing a full physical on you as well as basic testing.  If they aren't, that's an issue you have to take up with the clinic manager.

  

grace

by worried_death, Aug 01, 2009 04:38PM
I need to know what to specifically ask for as i've a;ready had bloodwork, hiv s& syphilis, ghonerrea, chlamydia and urine tests all done so my doctors just think everything is normal but it is NOT. can you just answer me where to go from now..

by worried_death, Aug 02, 2009 12:46AM
I also get a dull ache in my testicles can herpes cause this?

by gracefromHHP, Aug 02, 2009 10:34AM
I'm sorry but this is a free forum and we've helped you as much as we can at this point. there is absolutely nothing else I can add.

grace

by worried_death, Aug 02, 2009 01:20PM
I know but its just like you can't give me a simple yes or no? maybe my symptoms are just worse you say they are not from herpes but its a coincidence and i even found someone on this forum who had exact same symptoms without lesions. can it cause alot of complications an dproblems as the ones i have been describing.. can you please just answer that!

by worried_death, Aug 06, 2009 12:07AM
heres pics of the face its getting worse now

http://img99.imageshack.us/img99/1250/pc1800182.jpg
http://img145.imageshack.us/img145/8831/35550598.jpg

the sensation of these whatever they are are horrible it feels itchy, crawling, slight stinging and a feeling of something on my face. is it possible to get hsv2 ontop of hsv1 orally?

by gracefromHHP, Aug 06, 2009 07:27AM
we don't look at pictures and why is explained in our read before posting post.

we absolutely, positively can not provide you with any more help at this point. You've surpassed the limits of an online forum. continue to follow up  with your provider for this.

grace

by worried_death, Aug 06, 2009 08:26AM
i did but for one they are on the face not genitals and you can see it all very clearly can someone just tell me whether it looks like it or not ??

by worried_death, Aug 07, 2009 08:13PM
i have now devoloped as to what looks like a pimple / coldsore on my top lip isnt it a coincidence? im just confused as to i already hasd hsv1 since a child like almost everyone i know and havent had an outbreak since i was about 8. then i come into contact with this girl and my genitals start showing symptoms now i have acne all over my face and a coldosre on my lip. can hsv2 develop ontop of hsv1 orally?????

by worried_death, Aug 15, 2009 11:34AM
??

by gracefromHHP, Aug 15, 2009 03:43PM
as I have said previously - there's really not a darn thing we can help you with at this point. You need to keep following up with providers - a free online forum can't help you with what's going on at this point.

grace

by worried_death, Aug 16, 2009 05:03PM
only thing is tbh you haven't really helped me or answered one of my questions except tell me these are not herpes related yet alot of other people say herpes can cause complications like these as it's a nerve virus.

what is the possibility of catching type 2 ontop of type 1 orally? without oral sex as obviously i did check my genitals ALOT and have touched my face yet i have no sores or anything so maybe i have transferred it.
and is there anything i can do to help me with the problems i'm experiencing as i'm now going to assume it is herpes as that is the ONLY thing it can lead to causing me genital and body problems.

by gracefromHHP, Aug 16, 2009 06:18PM
Why not pay to post to Terri on her forum then if you aren't satisfied with what I've told you?  

there is only so much I can do to help you. You are being seen by providers who don't feel that you have genital herpes. Your description of your symptoms doesn't sound like genital herpes.  I'm not sure what exactly you think I"m going to be able to tell you ?

grace

by worried_death, Aug 16, 2009 09:13PM
im just asking for an answer to my questions which is why i hav kept replieng because you never give a clear answer

by ninehope, Aug 16, 2009 10:32PM
To: worried_death
Hey man,

I had oral sex from a girl at a stripclub and had symptoms similar to this but no Thrush.  Just itching, tingling and burning in my gentials for the first 3 months.  Also had what felt like sun burn or allergic reaction at times on my face, back, pretty much everywhere.  I was super scared man and I am MARRIED!  I messed up and felt like dying.  But it's been 6 months since exposure and I have had 3 seperate STD tests.  One at 2 weeks, 4 months and 6 months.  ALL tests (HIV, HERPES 1&2, Chlmy, GON, Syph and All Hep) were negative, except Herpes 1.  But that was postive at the 2 week testing and was an IGG test.  The IGM test were negative in all 3 test for Herpes. My infectious Disease doctor said that I most likely had that since I was a kid and that it is very hard to get HSV-1 again, genitally.  I sometimes have little itching or burning but rarely.  I do somtimes get anxiety and that does cause itching and a burning.  It just does that when your head trips.  I would say, no weed smoking, lots of exercise and water.  You gotta get as healthy as possible right now to keep your head right and health right so you can figure out what it is.  I do feel the same way, all my doctors say it's nothing related to that episode but in my gut I don't agree.  I know it's not HIV (oral sex is jsut about impossible) but I think it may be HSV-1 genital.  But they seem to think different.  I am afraid to have sex with my wife without a condom wven though the doctors say its ok. So I am haivng all sorts of tests done still of other ****, but you need to see a Infectious Disease dr and demand all those tests. Oh yeah, one last thing, at the 3 months mark, I got sick and my glands have been swollen on and off since (in my neck).  And I feel tired and sluggish.  That is why I am doing all these other tests.  So we will see.  Hope this helps a little.

by zaidoon, Aug 19, 2009 09:58AM
very weird man. I had the same nerve symptoms!!!!!  

by worried_death, Aug 19, 2009 10:33AM
numerous people seem to be getting these symptoms all after a sexual encounter, negative tests in everything else yet everyone seems to say "no this is not herpes". YOU WORK IT OUT. if its not herpes what else can it be except genital warts which doesn't have no symptoms at all. its so obvious yet everyone denys this ****. its obviously something we have caught from the other partner as WE NEVER GOT THESE BEFORE THE EXPOSURE.

by zaidoon, Aug 19, 2009 09:23PM
To: worried_death
Dont tell me about it man. these symptoms driving me crazy. Do u know what makes me more angry?  whe i tell the Doc about it he tells me its only on my head!!!!! or it is anxiety related. There was a time when am not anxoius at all but still have these wierd sensation all over my body, mainly on thighs and legs. So, what do u think ? do u think its herpes?

by gracefromHHP, Aug 20, 2009 06:48AM
there are billions of germs out there that can cause illness.  It really isn't limited to herpes and hpv!!!  When you have sex, you kiss and exchange germs that way too as well as genitally.  Don't get hung up on just a handful of std's having to be the cause of everything from a sexual encounter.

grace

by worried_death, Aug 20, 2009 09:36AM
I never kissed her, i had sex from behind which was roughly 5-10minutes. That's all i get from my doctor aswell blaming it on anxiety. Doctors only have a limited about of knowledge about herpes and would only diagnose you with it if you had blisters but just remember the majority of people don't even get blisters. Right now i have a banging headache which also comes with a whole range of over symptoms, why? i do not know. i never got these before? before i was healthy, energetic, most probably hadn't even had a headache in years. I think not enough research is put into herpes and the fact that everywhere i go whether internet, doctors or wherever all say herpes does not do this is lies. It is a coincidence how just a few days after the encounter i feel unwell and has just got worse up until now and has not gone. If it was the flu or anything else i'd think the maximum it would last for is 1 - 2 weeks not 4months or more and also the unusual feeling in the genitals wouldn't be caused by flu. You would think maybe it was another sti such as chlamydia or ghonnorea but having negative results in them and every other infection apart from herpes and genital warts justmakes it obvious. genital warts causes warts and nothing else no headaches no body symptoms just annoying warts. herpes causes headaches, body aches, nerve problems, and who knows what else so yes zaidoon it is possible me and you have herpes but are reacting to it in a horrible way. you would think that we would have sores aswell if our body can't handle this virus but it is very frustrating :(

by zaidoon, Aug 21, 2009 07:33AM
Today I had a new symptom. Everytime i needed to wake up because of hand numbeness. I felt also like something crawling on my body, but nothing there.

I WANT A RELEIF

by zaidoon, Aug 22, 2009 08:31AM
I forgot to ask u man. Hows is ur  appettite? Do u have nausea all the time ? what about sex? have u lost inetrest in sex?

by worried_death, Aug 22, 2009 01:41PM
no i seem to have an increased appetite sometimes i feel like i have nausea then other times i'll get severely hungry even not long after eating. and yes i did lose interest in sex for quite a while but i seem to now want sex yet i'm worried of spreading "(if herpes) to other people. where are you from? and have or are you going for a blood test?

by worried_death, Aug 22, 2009 01:43PM
o and a question for grace....

if i actually did have genital herpes what is the possibility that i've transferred it to my face previously ontop of hsv1 and not showing sores in the genitals but on the face? do you think if i had sores on my face i'd most definately have sores on my genitals as that was the site of entry

by petal130, Aug 22, 2009 03:27PM
To: worried_death
Let me help you out here a bit, worried_death, as grace actually deserves a break now and again.

Here's a "best of" grace's opinion from this entire thread. I bet if you read it all in one sitting (read it twice just for good measure!), you'll get the point. Well, we wish you'd get the point.

As to my thoughts, I'd say you really need to consider speaking to a counselor or therapist for very obvious reasons here. And, I take exception to the fact that anyone, especially grace, has to spend one more iota of time at this point on your continual paranoia, and the fact that you've not listened to a word of what grace has suggested.

So, here's the majority of the posts from grace in this thread:

"This really doesn't sound like herpes going on. It's been long enough now you can seek out a type specific herpes igg blood test to know your status. You do not have to have obvious symptoms to swab - a blood test is very helpful.

This was a low risk encounter in general.  

Following up with your psychiatrist at the earliest possible time for your anxiety about it all is in your best interest.  

No, folks who contract herpes do not get all over body issues like you describe.

no this doesn't sound like genital herpes which is why I advised continue follow up previously.

Herpes doesn't cause symptoms like this. Perhaps you have recently contracted a different viral infection or something?  Could even be a bacterial infection on the facial area too.

I can not help you if everyone is writing you off as anxiety. they are actually seeing your symptoms and should be doing a full physical on you as well as basic testing.  If they aren't, that's an issue you have to take up with the clinic manager.

I'm sorry but this is a free forum and we've helped you as much as we can at this point. there is absolutely nothing else I can add.

we absolutely, positively can not provide you with any more help at this point. You've surpassed the limits of an online forum. continue to follow up  with your provider for this.

as I have said previously - there's really not a darn thing we can help you with at this point. You need to keep following up with providers - a free online forum can't help you with what's going on at this point.

there is only so much I can do to help you. You are being seen by providers who don't feel that you have genital herpes. Your description of your symptoms doesn't sound like genital herpes."

by zaidoon, Aug 22, 2009 04:28PM
Well. I'm from kuwait,but, studying in the UK. I wanted to have hereps blood test. However, GUM clinic in the city i live in dont offer it since they think it is not reliable.They told me that they only do swap test for genital lesions, which they did and came up negative. I'm pretty sure that what i have is herpes.


What about u ? why did not take blood test


by zaidoon, Aug 22, 2009 04:29PM
currently i have blurred vision. Argh

by worried_death, Aug 22, 2009 04:57PM
have that too,  and petal i understand but i CANNOT get a blood test. there is no place here that offers them. went to my gp she refuses unless i have sores and even if i had sores it'd be a culture she'd be offering first. so i'm stuck. i do not need to see a phsyciatrist although i am due to me getting fed up with not knowing what it is. i come on here which such questions, why? because my gp offers no help so where else do i find such info? except she tells me it is not herpes but i was perfectly healthy before this encounter and now after i am experiencing whole body symptoms and the newest is a throbbing ache in the testicles.  anxiety? i dont think so.  could you please answer this question for me though?

if i actually did have genital herpes what is the possibility that i've transferred it to my face previously ontop of hsv1 and not showing sores in the genitals but on the face? do you think if i had sores on my face i'd most definately have sores on my genitals as that was the site of entry

by worried_death, Sep 12, 2009 01:33PM
????

also can you pleasseee help me on what to do!!!! i;m stuck with genital symptoms throbbing, sharp stinging, shooting pains and NO HELP WHATSOEVER from my gp or gum. they even try tell me there is no such thing as a blood test ;/ what steps can i take from here to get a correct diagnosis !!!!!! i cant just let it slide knowing i have some sort of infection and discomfort without exactly knowing what it is
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