my summary- had protected anal & unprotected oral sex with an older guy (one night stand) who I didn't know sexual history of over 12 months ago, we met on the internet, I know it was risky, I thought if you work a condom you were safe from catching anything. 2 or 3 days after meeting I did feel quite under the weather for 3 or 4 days. I had one yellow spot appear on my scrotum too, which I thought nothing off, I popped it like a zit and it gradually went away.
Ever since then I've had a few sores come and go (average once every 2 months) on my scrotum - they never blister or scab but do feel quite sore and aren't like a usual spot, I'd never had anything going on down below either before this encounter. Whenever I get this I also always get scabs on my the lymph nodes around my ears, I can feel my lymph nodes swell, the skin breaks and they are quite vicious looking scabs here, much worse than anything down below. I've had two IGG blood tests and tested negative for hsv2 twice, positive for hsv1 (but I've had cold sores for 20 years+) so expected this. I've also had two negative swabs on the sores.
I've been tested for everything else at 12 weeks and then again 9 months later (HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhoea, syphilis). What else could this be other than herpes? Docs said fungal infection but I've tried everything (steroid cream, fungal cream, penicillin) but they keep coming back even when my skin is completely clear. I thought if you had HSV1 orally you couldn't catch it again genitally, and a negative HSV2 test is pretty conclusive right?
The sores on my ears/neck are 100% interlinked with whatever happens down below, I never get one without the other. From what I can see on the internet this is never a symptom of herpes, but then I can't find it to be a symptom of much else either! Can anyone help me find out what this is?